missing him

[melmel8]

i know hes only in ky but this sucks!! i had the worst breakdown ever last night...what do u guys do when ur crying so hard u cant calm down or sleep??? i need advice.

[BrittanyAFGF]

i had that happen to me the other night. i hadnt cried since the day i left him and i dont know why all of a sudden it hit me like a sack of bricks. i was hysterical and then i was like "i can't do this!" i turned on some of my favorite music. i was getting ready for my trip that i was going on the next day and then i text him and told him how much i missed him. when he told me he missed me a lot more i started feeling better instantly. when i get like that i try and do something that i really enjoy or talk to one of my friends to get through it! you can do it! :]

[melmel8]

i tried to just fall asleep and forget about things but i just couldnt stop crying. it was awful. i get to c him in 2 weeks but i just was so upset.

[BrittanyAFGF]

it will be ok. you'll have days like that, but it will pass and you'll be stronger because of it. just hang on, you'll see him soon. PM me if you ever want to talk!

[jeninsd]

I always think to myself, "what would he think if he saw me acting a hot mess like this?" and that usually makes me laugh and snaps me out of it. You know he is not crying so hard that he can not breathe but that doesn't mean that he doesn't miss you too. It won't make him come back any sooner and only gives you a headache. Is this your first separation? They don't get "easier" but it does get easier to manage as it happens more often.

[melmel8]

Originally Posted by jeninsd I always think to myself, "what would he think if he saw me acting a hot mess like this?" and that usually makes me laugh and snaps me out of it. You know he is not crying so hard that he can not breathe but that doesn't mean that he doesn't miss you too. It won't make him come back any sooner and only gives you a headache. Is this your first separation? They don't get "easier" but it does get easier to manage as it happens more often.

well we talked when he was deployed last year but we werent together. so this is our first seperation as a couple. it makes so much sense what u said though. he HATES when i cry. if i call him n im crying he hangs up. it shows him that im weak and he doesnt like that but sometimes i just cant help it

[sdshorty]

You'll be OK! Just let yourself cry, let it all out. Then start trying to keep your mind occupied on something else. If it helps, how about maybe planning something for his return . Since you see him in 2 weeks, maybe plan something to surprise him, etc . You will get through this, I swear

[Sparks24]

I am sorry you feel this way, but I think its natural and you need to let it out every once in awhile. When I feel like I miss him so much I usually write him a letter telling him how much I love him and focusing on the things we will do when he gets back. It usually makes me feel better because I am picturing all the good times we will have together..I hope you feel better.

[csmithwick_819]

I'm sorry hun. Sometimes you just need a good cry. It will be ok!

[DanielsMelissa]

same thing happened to me last night I went to sleep crying an woke up this morning with swollen eyes