here we go again - Long Distance Love

sconk · 10-20-2009, 08:04 PM

Well I just got back from an AMAZING week and a half with DF

We had so much fun!! But tonight I got home and now I'm back to sleeping alone, no kisses, or hugs

I just feel sooo

and feel like

the first like two weeks are always hard for me.

belovedreamery · 10-20-2009, 09:07 PM

It's okay, you'll see him again soon.

navygirl8407 · 10-20-2009, 09:08 PM

i know it sucks!

pinkpolkadots · 10-20-2009, 09:15 PM

just come on MSOS a lot

it will get better, we have all been there

GatesGirl · 10-20-2009, 11:24 PM

It will get better

Kerind22 · 10-20-2009, 11:32 PM

I know that it is hard! It will get better!

Unconditonal.Love · 10-21-2009, 06:41 AM

It'll get better once you're back in the usual routine and it's quite normal for you to feel that way!
I felt like crap, too when I got back from visiting my man a few weeks ago, cause I got so used being around/with him 24/7 and it took me almost a week to get over that crappy feeling!
I missed him more in that week after being with him than I did all the 6 months since our LDR started!
Keep you heard up, do step by step and also day by day, cause that helps big time!
Also make sure to keep yourself as busy as possible, cause that helps, too!
Good luck with everything getting better in time!
Regards and much love!

sconk · 10-21-2009, 01:26 PM

Thanks girls, it's weird I was with him like everyday for a week and a half now nothing he is there and I am here. But I am adjusting much quicker this time prolly cause I havn't sat down since I got home. I have been on the run the whole time. And wedding planning is in full gear!!

UST82 · 10-21-2009, 03:34 PM

i know it sucks! my husband left 2 weeks back too and i'm still adjusting!

TheLuckiest · 10-23-2009, 04:20 PM

That first week or so apart after a visit are always really hard. Sometimes it feels like you start completely over getting used to the LDR after every visit. But it gets easier and you get back into your routine. I always get really lonely just BEFORE a visit too, because the time seems to DRAG by. I hope things are getting a little easier!

10-20-2009, 08:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
sconk engaged to my hero Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cherry Point Posts: 949 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 80% Longevity: 16%	here we go again Well I just got back from an AMAZING week and a half with DF We had so much fun!! But tonight I got home and now I'm back to sleeping alone, no kisses, or hugs I just feel sooo and feel like the first like two weeks are always hard for me. __________________

10-20-2009, 09:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
belovedreamery Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,301 Blog Entries: 7 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 32% Longevity: 17%	It's okay, you'll see him again soon. __________________ TiggyKiwiBGHammieBGTG Mama & Baby seals Welcome Rascal! helloimkaley isn't my wifey, she is my 11:11 Long Distance Pal to Nicki082106

10-20-2009, 09:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
navygirl8407 "There will be an answer--let it be." Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: us-Guam Posts: 3,937 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 66% Longevity: 19%	i know it sucks! __________________ I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in a person.--- Audrey Hepburn

10-20-2009, 11:24 PM	#5 (permalink)
GatesGirl I'm Forever Yours, Faithfully Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: ME: Bellingham, WA, HIM: Spangdahlem AB, Germany Posts: 4,606 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 82% Longevity: 17%	It will get better __________________ My is in Germany Wifey to Britt Shea, Ana1221, and Airforcegirl87

10-21-2009, 06:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
Unconditonal.Love I'm living my life like it's golden! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Me: Germany Him: at the other side of the world Posts: 1,601 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 20% Longevity: 27%	It'll get better once you're back in the usual routine and it's quite normal for you to feel that way! I felt like crap, too when I got back from visiting my man a few weeks ago, cause I got so used being around/with him 24/7 and it took me almost a week to get over that crappy feeling! I missed him more in that week after being with him than I did all the 6 months since our LDR started! Keep you heard up, do step by step and also day by day, cause that helps big time! Also make sure to keep yourself as busy as possible, cause that helps, too! Good luck with everything getting better in time! Regards and much love! __________________ "You are already blessed with a sexy, beautiful and banging body, you don't do anything and you look much better than most women who do go to the gym on a regular. Just imagine when you will have a personal trainer in Colorado and change into a gym rat again, I will definitely have to get a gun." - DH Wifey to Sparks24, USAFwife1 LDL Pal to babyvicious27, me&dan, Rianne

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10-20-2009, 09:15 PM	#4 (permalink)
pinkpolkadots Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,313 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 45% Longevity: 16%	just come on MSOS a lot it will get better, we have all been there

10-20-2009, 11:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
Kerind22 Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: The south Posts: 30 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 4% Longevity: 1%	I know that it is hard! It will get better!

10-21-2009, 01:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
sconk engaged to my hero Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cherry Point Posts: 949 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 80% Longevity: 16%	Thanks girls, it's weird I was with him like everyday for a week and a half now nothing he is there and I am here. But I am adjusting much quicker this time prolly cause I havn't sat down since I got home. I have been on the run the whole time. And wedding planning is in full gear!! __________________

10-21-2009, 03:34 PM	#9 (permalink)
UST82 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Me: Boston, MA Him: Vilseck, Germany Posts: 146 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 6% Longevity: 4%	i know it sucks! my husband left 2 weeks back too and i'm still adjusting!

10-23-2009, 04:20 PM	#10 (permalink)
TheLuckiest Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Me-Alabama, Him- Kansas Posts: 168 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 39% Longevity: 10%	That first week or so apart after a visit are always really hard. Sometimes it feels like you start completely over getting used to the LDR after every visit. But it gets easier and you get back into your routine. I always get really lonely just BEFORE a visit too, because the time seems to DRAG by. I hope things are getting a little easier! __________________