I hate Mondays - Long Distance Love

TheLuckiest · 05-12-2009, 12:32 AM

Sorry for whining but gotta get it all out. I'm having a really hard time tonight. I'm in a LDR with a wonderful guy. But with all the stress I've had piling on top of me it's so incredibly hard to not have him here right now. I just finished up my Junior year of college, and this semester was exhausting. I took some extremely hard classes that required TON of studying. My grandad died last weekend (he was 89 and completely healthy, fell and hit his head a few weeks ago, causing a brain bleed). This happened right in the middle of finals so I had to come back and make them up after everyone else had left town. Now I'm stuck in an empty college town feeling extremely lonely. My family is having a hard time, school is wearing me out, and being in a LDR relationship that is usually pretty easy for me is just really hard right now. He feels terrible that he can't be here with me and I keep trying to tell him that I'm perfectly okay, but he knows me so much better than that. I just need a good day that doesn't add more stress... Okay, I'm done venting now...

~~hesmyarmyman~~ · 05-12-2009, 12:33 AM

Awww! I hope things get better for you love!

dianekj · 05-12-2009, 12:35 AM

TayreehBaykur · 05-12-2009, 04:57 AM

Aww Don't hate Mondays

But here are

coming your way

CY84 · 05-12-2009, 12:42 PM

Hang in there!

I know it's hard not having him with you...especially when times are hard. PM me if you ever want to chat!

SailorsGirl06 · 05-12-2009, 01:56 PM

Hey girl, Im sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time, and it is hard being in an LDR, but its worth it when they come home!! PM me if you ever need someone to talk to!

Lynnette1990 · 05-12-2009, 03:01 PM

I'm sorry you are having a rough time. Hopefully things get better for you.

tns246 · 05-12-2009, 03:24 PM

queentreev1004 · 05-13-2009, 02:51 AM

I'm sorry that things are rough right now but hang in there, this too shall pass and you will be so much stronger for it!

TheLuckiest · 05-13-2009, 03:03 AM

Thanks for the positive thoughts everybody! I was supposed to go out with some friends tonight but decided to stay in so he and I could talk when he got home. We had a good long talk which was great because we have both been super busy lately... Trying to figure out a good weekend for a visit in the next month or so... Having a date set for a visit will be something good to look forward to! Thanks again for all the encouragement I am so hooked on this site!

05-12-2009, 12:32 AM	#1 (permalink)
TheLuckiest Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Me-Alabama, Him- Kansas Posts: 168 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 39% Longevity: 10%	I hate Mondays Sorry for whining but gotta get it all out. I'm having a really hard time tonight. I'm in a LDR with a wonderful guy. But with all the stress I've had piling on top of me it's so incredibly hard to not have him here right now. I just finished up my Junior year of college, and this semester was exhausting. I took some extremely hard classes that required TON of studying. My grandad died last weekend (he was 89 and completely healthy, fell and hit his head a few weeks ago, causing a brain bleed). This happened right in the middle of finals so I had to come back and make them up after everyone else had left town. Now I'm stuck in an empty college town feeling extremely lonely. My family is having a hard time, school is wearing me out, and being in a LDR relationship that is usually pretty easy for me is just really hard right now. He feels terrible that he can't be here with me and I keep trying to tell him that I'm perfectly okay, but he knows me so much better than that. I just need a good day that doesn't add more stress... Okay, I'm done venting now...

05-12-2009, 12:35 AM	#3 (permalink)
dianekj His Love Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Sunnyside,WA Posts: 855 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 13% Longevity: 17%	__________________ "I Got You Delphiniums Because I Love You To Inphinium"

05-12-2009, 04:57 AM	#4 (permalink)
TayreehBaykur Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 2,039 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 2% Longevity: 24%	Aww Don't hate Mondays But here are coming your way __________________ My wifey hesmyarmyman My Hubby blazeman My "Top Hoe" Woogz My huneybun OneRed911, My One and only Blueyedcutie My Skeeter bug Oggie's_wife my sugah Mama Miraluu,My Fiancee sestrada59 My Sunshyne mogaswife My Moochness mrsgalloway My Spice girl LuvsHarleys, My June bug Kells, my darlin nstarsweetie, my love machine ashleykaymay my cutie patootie Lauralee my hot mamma showgirl85, My Pookie Bear LibraryBritt , My little mouse Twilliams,My Moon-pie Samoontha, My Cupcake JasonsAngel, My LolliePop aloneinparadise,My Blossom navygirl8407, My Snicker-doodle (wifey #2)fallinstar, My Cookie Monster Bonita_SoldierMy Ginger USCsemperfi, My Love-Boat MarinesWife09, and of course, my mistress ASingingWife

05-12-2009, 03:01 PM	#7 (permalink)
Lynnette1990 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Beaufort,SC Posts: 2,289 Classifieds: (4) Activity: 33% Longevity: 12%	I'm sorry you are having a rough time. Hopefully things get better for you. __________________ Deployment Survivor: 09.24.08-10.17.09

05-12-2009, 03:24 PM	#8 (permalink)
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05-12-2009, 12:33 AM	#2 (permalink)
~~hesmyarmyman~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 3,170 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 14%	Awww! I hope things get better for you love!

05-12-2009, 12:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
CY84 Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Lancaster, PA Posts: 77 Blog Entries: 3 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 10%	Hang in there! I know it's hard not having him with you...especially when times are hard. PM me if you ever want to chat!

05-12-2009, 01:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
SailorsGirl06 theNAVYhasmyheart! Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Baltimore, MD Posts: 26 Blog Entries: 1 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 9%	Hey girl, Im sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time, and it is hard being in an LDR, but its worth it when they come home!! PM me if you ever need someone to talk to!

05-13-2009, 02:51 AM	#9 (permalink)
queentreev1004 His Buttafli Join Date: May 2007 Location: Us: Merck City The Boo: MCAS New River Posts: 2,243 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 1% Longevity: 43%	I'm sorry that things are rough right now but hang in there, this too shall pass and you will be so much stronger for it! __________________

05-13-2009, 03:03 AM	#10 (permalink)
TheLuckiest Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Me-Alabama, Him- Kansas Posts: 168 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 39% Longevity: 10%	Thanks for the positive thoughts everybody! I was supposed to go out with some friends tonight but decided to stay in so he and I could talk when he got home. We had a good long talk which was great because we have both been super busy lately... Trying to figure out a good weekend for a visit in the next month or so... Having a date set for a visit will be something good to look forward to! Thanks again for all the encouragement I am so hooked on this site! __________________