Dont know what to think

[armygf08]

So I recently posted how DF broke up with me, but then we decided to work things out because he just got scared. So the last time I actually heard from him was May 3rd. We talked on IM, and it was a normal conversation and we were perfectly fine.

Now, its May 11th. I have asked and asked him to get in contact with me. Let me know how he is doing, and I have asked him to IM me when he can cause I had some questions for him. I have not gotten a response. He has read my messages that I sent him. But, none of this is out of the norm for him. And he even does this with his mom and sister, so I know its not just me.

Just because of everything that happend Im really worried. Cause him breaking up with me was straight out of the blue. I just really hate this, cause I dont know what to do, and I just cant pick up the phone and call him. We dont have much of the deployment left, I want it to be done. I dont know what else I can do to get through to him. I guess there is nothing else that I can do.

I just had to get it out, my friends dont really get it all that much.

[KaylaH]

Distance makes everything harder! I hope that you guys can figure everything out when he gets home! It will be so much easier when you can have a face-to-face conversation!

[Kacy]

I've noticed at least three of your posts in the last few days. If I were you, I would quit trying to write to him. It sounds like you've done more than enough to try to stay connected with him. Make him take a little responsibility in your relationship. He should realize that he's deployed, but not from you, his mother, and whoever else he has been ignoring the past week or so. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, though

[Angie113]

Originally Posted by Kacy I've noticed at least three of your posts in the last few days. If I were you, I would quit trying to write to him. It sounds like you've done more than enough to try to stay connected with him. Make him take a little responsibility in your relationship. He should realize that he's deployed, but not from you, his mother, and whoever else he has been ignoring the past week or so. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, though

I agree 100% me and db were having problems and he sent me a text telling me he didn't want me to move with him a week b4 it was supposed to happen.... I stopped talking to him and he realized he ****ed up and made it all better

[belovedreamery]

*hugs* Hang in there, don't send anymore messages, he will contact you when he feels like it.

[Mara Ray]

you said before this was your first bump in the road but this seems to be a pretty big bump. You both need to lay out what you want/expect from the relationship. His behavior is out of line. If he doesnt have time, he should write a quick "sorry I have been really busy but I will talk to you when I can"

Sorry you are going through this

[Heather0315]

sorry that you are going thru this=[

[GatesGirl]

Originally Posted by Kacy I've noticed at least three of your posts in the last few days. If I were you, I would quit trying to write to him. It sounds like you've done more than enough to try to stay connected with him. Make him take a little responsibility in your relationship. He should realize that he's deployed, but not from you, his mother, and whoever else he has been ignoring the past week or so. I'm sorry you're dealing with this, though

you have done what you can. hang in there. i hope he responds to you soon.