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05-06-2009, 07:15 PM
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no time for me.
DB is supposidly having an "easy" week at med school. He has all of these half days, and has been out every night of the week. Honestly, it's driving me crazy. He knows I have to go to bed early because I wake up early, yet he calls late.
We just talked and I asked what he was doing tonight. He kept dodging my question. He said this girl was having people over to watch the hockey game. I asked who, and he wouldn't tell me, said it didn't matter and that alot of people were going. Why couldn't he just answer the question??? He usually doesn't go out this much. He keeps saying, well I'm just trying to make friends. He has friends. I just wish he wouldn't call when he was rushing to get somewhere....if this is such an easy week, then why doesn't he have any time for me????? I hate not knowing his friends. I hate living "seperate lives." |
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05-06-2009, 07:18 PM
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yep........"well, you don't understand. i have so much stress, i just need to go out and take my mind off it" yeah, can't tell you how many times i heard that. Like on the weekends when he did have free time, he never called......guys suck at times
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05-06-2009, 07:18 PM
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 hang in there hun! It will get better. PM me anytime you need to vent 
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05-06-2009, 07:30 PM
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oooo that would piss me off if I flat out asked him who it was and he just decided he wasn't going to tell me!
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05-07-2009, 12:28 PM
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 Red Flag thereWhy is he avoiding the question? I'm not saying anything is going on. but it does sound like he is feeling guilty about something Talk to him, tell him you need more time and that this secrecy is not okay  I'd be upset if DF was pulling that crap
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05-07-2009, 12:45 PM
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That would definitely NOT be okay with me. I would let him know that too!
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05-07-2009, 01:30 PM
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i'd be upset, for sure! first off, he's not making time for you; secondly he's dodging the question, that would REALLY piss me off!
 i hope ya'll work everything out!
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05-07-2009, 02:50 PM
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i hate the weekends cause DF is out and about and i have no idea where he is at or if he is going to call or get online. Sometimes i wish he would just text me and tell me he is going out with his friends for awhile so i dont sit there going crazy.
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05-07-2009, 02:54 PM
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I would be angry with him as well. If I were you, and he were interrupting, I would just tell him I had to go. give him a taste of his own medicine...but, i'm also a vindictive ***** sometimes
 PS. you live by me..we should get together sometime
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