My heart is hurting...

[NavyBrat88]

OK so J got into some trouble with the Army and they shipped him off to do some mission or something as punishment.
Well I can't talk to him for 30 days.
Only 27 days to go.

[QSS89]

Originally Posted by NavyBrat88 OK so J got into some trouble with the Army and they shipped him off to do some mission or something as punishment. Well I can't talk to him for 30 days. Only 27 days to go.

I know its hard but your strong and you can pm me whenever you wanna talk. Just try to keep busy so the time will fly.

[NavyBrat88]

QS you ar such a sweetie! Thank you.

I hope I'm strong enough. I mean I did it when he was deployed for 18 mths but we were only friends then.... Now its different.
Well since he has my heart and all! My BFF who's SO is also in the Army (our SO's are BFF) is keeping me very busy! And my BFF's SO will be home the 19th so he can entertain me for awhile. I know J will be home for 2 weeks on leave (hopefully) and then has to go back and do his extra duty which is 45 days. And then he should be home. But I told him don't consider yourself out till you are on that plane and in the sky on your way home. Or leaving the base on the bike!
One of my buddies platoon members just got stop-lossed. Which i thought was against the law now or did they not sign the bill yet?

[GatesGirl]

[QSS89]

Originally Posted by NavyBrat88 QS you ar such a sweetie! Thank you. I hope I'm strong enough. I mean I did it when he was deployed for 18 mths but we were only friends then.... Now its different. Well since he has my heart and all! My BFF who's SO is also in the Army (our SO's are BFF) is keeping me very busy! And my BFF's SO will be home the 19th so he can entertain me for awhile. I know J will be home for 2 weeks on leave (hopefully) and then has to go back and do his extra duty which is 45 days. And then he should be home. But I told him don't consider yourself out till you are on that plane and in the sky on your way home. Or leaving the base on the bike! One of my buddies platoon members just got stop-lossed. Which i thought was against the law now or did they not sign the bill yet?

I understand completely in that area me and my DF were friends for 4 years til we actually talked so everything is different it's much more feelings and emotions now. I know what you are going through must be hard but doing it for 18 months show you are strong. My DF told me he has to go overseas the end of next year. So I have to get stronger by then. It's wonderful you have friends around you to help you out and make you feel better. I have friends here but they just don't understand our relationship and why I am in it but I love him. That's why I am here to talk to wonderful ladies like yourself that understand.

[NavyBrat88]

Gates thank you for the big hug!

QS you can also pm me if you need anything. Yea a lot of my friends don't understand, and my family is a bit confused. But I've known him for 8 years, and my parents love him. I know when he comes home its going to be like the floor disappeared underneath me and I'll just keep falling! Yea J is supposed to go to Afghanistan in January...

[QSS89]

Originally Posted by NavyBrat88 Gates thank you for the big hug! QS you can also pm me if you need anything. Yea a lot of my friends don't understand, and my family is a bit confused. But I've known him for 8 years, and my parents love him. I know when he comes home its going to be like the floor disappeared underneath me and I'll just keep falling! Yea J is supposed to go to Afghanistan in January...

Its going to be hard I cannot express how much I love him everyday and how proud I am of him. I am going to see him in a few days which will help.

[MS234755]

ugh, i've had to go 30 days too, NOT a lot of fun. but im sure you're tougher than i was and you'll do great hang in there

[NavyBrat88]

Thanks girls!

QS I know exactly what you mean!

[ArmyGirlfriend08]