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    We're over. It's done. I hate being broken up with because I get no say. He just decides I'm "too good for him" and that "I deserve better". Even if any of that is true...don't I get the right to decide that for myself?
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    Quote Originally Posted by subgf71573 View Post
    We're over. It's done. I hate being broken up with because I get no say. He just decides I'm "too good for him" and that "I deserve better". Even if any of that is true...don't I get the right to decide that for myself?
    Yes, but not for him. And why would you want to be with someone who does not even want to try?
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    You deserve so much better! Sounds like his loss.
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    Thanks ladies. It just hurts. I wish we could have tried to work through it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Guynavywife View Post
    Yes, but not for him. And why would you want to be with someone who does not even want to try?
    This. And I'm sorry




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    Quote Originally Posted by Guynavywife View Post
    Yes, but not for him. And why would you want to be with someone who does not even want to try?

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    I'm sorry, it might be hard now, but you will be okay
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    I'm sorry, it might be hard now, but you will be okay
    Thank you ❤️ It's just hard to believe it's over. Things got so intense and serious with us so quickly, and I know that that's part of why things ended. I wish we had kept things slow and maybe the things he cited would have eventually come out organically and we could have worked through together. I know that not continuing this relationship will probably be better for me in the long run but I just felt so comfortable and safe and brave and beautiful with him. I know there's nothing I can do, and repeating this stuff isn't going to bring the relationship back, but it's all I can think about.
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    I'm sorry hon. Honestly, I really hate those phrases. To me, they're excuses and what someone says to soften the blow. He doesn't want to be with you or try for whatever reason. Yeah it hurts. Yeah it sucks you thought you had found someone to value and who valued you. And yep, it sucks the vision you had of your future is now changed. Do what you need; cry, indulge in junk food, go out with friends, etc. But remember there will be a time it doesn't hurt. You will move on, be fine, find love and love again. You're in thoughts and my heart goes out to you. Lots of hugs and love hon!!!
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    Shitty but like Asher said you don't want someone like that anyways. On to bigger and better things
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