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    Even through the issues DB and I have been having, I never thought I'd need to post here. I know relationships hard, they're fucking work. But I have always ALWAYS been willing to put in work where needed. That's what you do when you love someone. This was the man I wanted to marry. He's been harboring feelings about various stuff - stuff he has never brought up to me, so how would I know? And now it all comes out, I'm blindsided. And he tells me that he's not willing to put the work in for this relationship. It hurts. A lot. More than a lot. That someone that I was willing to do anything for doesn't feel the same about me.

    This happened minutes before I was walking out the door this morning to go to a day-long dog rescue event. I couldn't even cry, had to put on my happy face. Just got home and am finally breaking down. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I feel like my world is crumbling right now. I wish I could stay home from work tomorrow but my boss has a big meeting that I need to provide support for. I may take another day off this week or something. I'm not scheduled to see my counselor again for 2 weeks but I'm going to see if I can get in there this week too.

    Hope you don't mind me sticking around the boards, I like you people.
    ~Becca~


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    I know you're hurting now, but it will get better with time. I'm glad you'll be staying on the boards.

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    Please do stay. I'm so so very sorry to hear all this. You deserve better. I agree with Lepus, it will get better with time.
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    You are too good for him . I would be so happy if you stayed.

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    This is gonna be the summer of the single ladies.

    at least you found out how little he gives a shit before he became the man you married. I know that doesn't help right now, but later on you'll be thankful. You deserve so much more.
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    So many hugs . I'm so sorry Becca. You're an awesome woman, and I hope in time that you are able to move on.

    You contribute a lot to the boards so I do really hope you stick around!




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    I was exactly where you are two months ago. It sucks. It hurts so SO much. But it gets easier. I'm still far from okay, but I keep trying and that's what matters. If you want to talk to someone who can relate, my PM box is always open.
    If you're too proud to follow rivers, how are you ever gonna find the sea?
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    Sooo sooo sooo sry! I really dont have any words! Just lots of
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    I'm here for you if you need anything
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    I was where you are in January. It gets a lot easier I promise. I have a singles thread you're more than welcome to join all of us single ladies there!
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