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    Got the rest of my stuff out.

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    Today has been a very long, hard day. With everything going on it's taken a while to get everything out. We had the fights to end all fights yesterday after he blatantly refused to switch the utilities from my name. I told him if it wasn't done by Friday I would have my account closed and that would result in them being shut off. He got so angry! Started berating me, I told him I wouldn't answer his calls if that was all he was going to do and if he did I'd hano up on him. After telling me that I got out "Scott free" he started screaming so I hung up. His next voice mail was the nastiest one I've ever gotten, then text and told me that I had to have my stuff out before he got home today or he would remove it for me.

    Took a friend with me and it's done, but I'm wiped. I could use hugs and all that stuff.
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    what a fuckin asshole. I'm sorry he's being like that.
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    what a fuckin asshole. I'm sorry he's being like that.
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    Sounds like you are handling it and him great!
    I would save that voicemail and the messages though. If he ever tries to get back with you, or you have a fleeting thought even about being friends with him again, play it for yourself.
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    im so glad you stood up for yourself why the fuck should he have utilities in your name when you don't live there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Guynavywife View Post
    Sounds like you are handling it and him great!
    I would save that voicemail and the messages though. If he ever tries to get back with you, or you have a fleeting thought even about being friends with him again, play it for yourself.
    Sadly those aren't the worst things he's said. He at one point told me that saying I have PTSD is an insult to his brothers in arms. That will forever be stuck in my mind. There is no going back at this point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Candice. View Post
    im so glad you stood up for yourself why the fuck should he have utilities in your name when you don't live there?
    It would cost $50 to open a new account and he put it off it was only going to be for 2 months. He's a child in a grown man's body.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmandaA View Post
    Sadly those aren't the worst things he's said. He at one point told me that saying I have PTSD is an insult to his brothers in arms. That will forever be stuck in my mind. There is no going back at this point.
    You are so much better off without him!
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