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    So James and I are done. For good this time. After a few explosive arguments, I realized the reason we'd never worked in the past is that we're different in ways that just can't be ignored. He wanted the freedom to sleep around and get involved with women that would act... rudely towards him. I was tempted to use a certain swear word to describe the type he's now attracted to but figured I'd rather not. (Rhymes with 'stitch'). That's just not me. I rarely raise my voice above a conversational tone, rarely cuss and well there are a lot of things I don't do. Most of which involve a leather catsuit and stiletto boots but that's a story for another time. What am I supposed to do with a man that can't even be honest about his sexual preferences? One of the biggest differences though? He didn't want kids. A miscarriage when I was 17 along with multiple surgeries I'd had as a child caused severe scarring in my uterus. That scarring along with the condition that resulted in the surgeries make it nearly impossible for me to carry a child without risking death. That's if I even managed to carry to term. I plan on adopting from the foster care system and he wasn't even okay with that. And having children is something I refuse to compromise on. I can't say I'm sad about it ending with him because I'm not. I guess I'm just lost about how to proceed from here. I gave up a chance with a great guy last year to give James a last chance and I feel like an idiot for that.

    For those of you that were following the story about my relationship with the ex an advised against it? You were right. An ex is meant to stay that way. Feel free to say 'I told you so'.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsPond View Post
    So James and I are done. For good this time. After a few explosive arguments, I realized the reason we'd never worked in the past is that we're different in ways that just can't be ignored. He wanted the freedom to sleep around and get involved with women that would act... rudely towards him. I was tempted to use a certain swear word to describe the type he's now attracted to but figured I'd rather not. (Rhymes with 'stitch'). That's just not me. I rarely raise my voice above a conversational tone, rarely cuss and well there are a lot of things I don't do. Most of which involve a leather catsuit and stiletto boots but that's a story for another time. What am I supposed to do with a man that can't even be honest about his sexual preferences? One of the biggest differences though? He didn't want kids. A miscarriage when I was 17 along with multiple surgeries I'd had as a child caused severe scarring in my uterus. That scarring along with the condition that resulted in the surgeries make it nearly impossible for me to carry a child without risking death. That's if I even managed to carry to term. I plan on adopting from the foster care system and he wasn't even okay with that. And having children is something I refuse to compromise on. I can't say I'm sad about it ending with him because I'm not. I guess I'm just lost about how to proceed from here. I gave up a chance with a great guy last year to give James a last chance and I feel like an idiot for that.

    For those of you that were following the story about my relationship with the ex an advised against it? You were right. An ex is meant to stay that way. Feel free to say 'I told you so'.
    Wow. I'm sorry you're hurting!
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    I'm sorry you're dealing with all that!
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    Don't be so hard on yourself. Things happen for a reason.
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    Don't be so hard on yourself. Things happen for a reason.
    I'm trying not to be. I know they do, I just feel like a fool for going back so many times. I don't even know why I did. I knew from past experience that he was poison but I couldn't help it. He was like an addiction I couldn't quit. There was no sense or reason to why I'd return. Just that I did.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsPond View Post
    So James and I are done. For good this time. After a few explosive arguments, I realized the reason we'd never worked in the past is that we're different in ways that just can't be ignored. He wanted the freedom to sleep around and get involved with women that would act... rudely towards him. I was tempted to use a certain swear word to describe the type he's now attracted to but figured I'd rather not. (Rhymes with 'stitch'). That's just not me. I rarely raise my voice above a conversational tone, rarely cuss and well there are a lot of things I don't do. Most of which involve a leather catsuit and stiletto boots but that's a story for another time. What am I supposed to do with a man that can't even be honest about his sexual preferences? One of the biggest differences though? He didn't want kids. A miscarriage when I was 17 along with multiple surgeries I'd had as a child caused severe scarring in my uterus. That scarring along with the condition that resulted in the surgeries make it nearly impossible for me to carry a child without risking death. That's if I even managed to carry to term. I plan on adopting from the foster care system and he wasn't even okay with that. And having children is something I refuse to compromise on. I can't say I'm sad about it ending with him because I'm not. I guess I'm just lost about how to proceed from here. I gave up a chance with a great guy last year to give James a last chance and I feel like an idiot for that.

    For those of you that were following the story about my relationship with the ex an advised against it? You were right. An ex is meant to stay that way. Feel free to say 'I told you so'.
    Sorry it took so long for you to get out of this, but I am glad you did, and hopefully, you can find the right guy and be happy.
    But, not sure whether this is a typo or I am mis-understanding it.
    You said one of the big differences is that he does not want kids, and you can't have kids?

    Even without any of the other stuff, the wanting/not wanting children is a huge issue.

    But the leather catsuit and boots? Who did he want to wear them, him or you? And that is such the kind of story (with photos) that pillow talk was made for!!!
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