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    Well I am here now.

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    So this is all a shock to me, but DF and I are done.

    I was visiting my sister at college this weekend in Texas, and when I got back to our apartment, there were little things that were just off. For example, a bottle of crown on our fridge and we have not had alcohol in the house since we moved in. Anyways, there were several other things and when I questioned DF he could not even look me in the eyes and made up stories for all of my questions.

    The next evening, he confessed to bringing a girl home from a bar (he works at one occasionally on weekends) and sleeping with her in MY bed. So I immediately walked out. I'm totally done as I would NEVER be able to fully trust him again and I just can't do it. I am keeping our puppy we bought 6 months ago. 6 1/2 years together down the drain. We were going to sign papers on a house this week.
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    I am SO so sorry to hear this. Good for you for walking out. Here if you need me.
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    Sweetie, I am SO sorry. Oh my gosh, I'm just -- wow.


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    Omg...that is whole other level of disrespect. To not just cheat...but in your home...in your bed...I am so sorry. I'm thinking of you wishing you the best. Hugs!!
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    I'm really sorry!

    I'll be thinking of you!
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    I would've done the same thing, good for you for respecting yourself and getting out. I'm sorry it ended that way though, that's just on a whole other level. Disgusting. I'm really sorry.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lynn View Post



    Sweetie, I am SO sorry. Oh my gosh, I'm just -- wow.


    ^This is pretty much everyone's reaction…our friends, our families (aside from wanting to kill him ). I heard "how's the wedding planning?" about 10 times at work.

    Thank you guys. It is extremely hard, but I know it will be better in the long run.
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    oh. my. god. What a figgin asshole! I am so, so sorry you are going through this. I am so glad you know you are worth more than that.
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    Oh my word! I am so very sorry!
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    I'm absolutely speechless.....but good for you for sticking up for yourself. Much better will come your way. *hugs*
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