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    Trying to Figure Out What I Did Wrong

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    DB ended things with me. I am not sure what happened. We were just talking and somehow it ended in us ending. He said that he loves me so much but that he wasn't focused on work and that he needed to be. Also that he didn't think it was fair for me to wait around for him when he left in a couple months. I am so heart broken. I just don't know what I can do or what I could have done.

    It made it so much worse that he was so kind about the whole thing. I have always ended relationships because a guy cheated on me or he was a jerk. But this time he told me he loved me so much and that he thought it was only fair for me. He started to tear up. Then he said he didn't know because he didn't want to hurt my feelings.

    I just wanted him to be an a$$ or something.

    I really thought he was the one.

    I am so heartbroken. And now I am off to figure out how to pull it together for work tomorrow. I am not feeling like I can.
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    I know the "it's not you, it's me" thing is really cliche but it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. If he's not in a place to handle a relationship that has nothing to do with you. Sometimes relationships end and there's no fault for one (or both) parties. I'm so sorry.
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    I'm so sorry
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    I am so sorry
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    Im so sorry. I know how hard it is and honestly the only thing that will help you heal is time.

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    I'm so sorry
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    Thanks everyone.

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