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    DF is no longer DF

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    So things were bad for a while. I was trying to make the best of things and find happiness with him when after taking some time I realized it was never going to be what I need. I ended things last night. He says he had anxiety attacks while I was taking time that sent him to the hospital. Talk about making me feel bad. He said everything he can think of to try and get me to stay but in the end, words are just words and seeing as we've been fighting about the same things for a month with no change I can't trust he will. Today he sent flowers. Anoter low blow and my heart is in pieces. I don't know if I will be back here but felt like I needed to share
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    Quote Originally Posted by smileygirl View Post
    So things were bad for a while. I was trying to make the best of things and find happiness with him when after taking some time I realized it was never going to be what I need. I ended things last night. He says he had anxiety attacks while I was taking time that sent him to the hospital. Talk about making me feel bad. He said everything he can think of to try and get me to stay but in the end, words are just words and seeing as we've been fighting about the same things for a month with no change I can't trust he will. Today he sent flowers. Anoter low blow and my heart is in pieces. I don't know if I will be back here but felt like I needed to share
    - I'm so sorry - it sounds like this was the healthiest decision you could make right now for both of you.
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    I'm so sorry!
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    this sounds like I could have written it a couple months ago, including the guilt trip. I'm glad you did what was best for you.
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    You did what was best and it may not be the right time for him to be invested in a relationship since it seems like he has some things to work on as well.
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