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    I guess I should let you guys know

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    PH and I broke up last Sunday (like 9 days ago). So I'm sorry if I've been short or mean to anyone.

    Essentially, after over 2 years together, I wanted to get a little more serious (not even that much more serious), and he's stuck in this "I love being a bachelor and going to movies with my mommy and daddy!" phase. I couldn't take him treating me like a girlfriend when it was convenient (i.e. when I'd help with a tennis tournament, he was on break so he had "time", basically when he wanted to make me a priority) but then as soon as I needed him for something he'd freak out.

    He's not a bad man. He just needs to grow up and realize that other people have feelings and needs too. His friends are all on him about this too because they're all married, and he makes little comments about how much that must suck. They finally went off on him that he's 34, being married doesn't suck, it nice to have someone to come home to that loves you. So they all went off on him Sunday night (2 days ago), and now he's pouting like I put them up to it.

    My hope is that eventually he'll see that, and be able to have a happy, healthy relationship with me or someone else. I don't know what the future holds, but that's my update.
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    I'm sorry. I'm glad you did what was right for you tho.
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    I hope he comes to his senses, because he's really missing out on someone/ something great.
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    I hope he realizes what he's losing and comes around.
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    I'm sorry! I'm sure he will come around once he realizes what he's lost, that is my hope anyways.
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    I'm sorry I hope he comes to his senses soon.
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