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    Is it weird...?

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    That I feel somewhat relieved??

    Idk. Like I'm still pretty sad and I wish it didn't have to end this way. At the same time, I'm proud of myself for voicing my needs... and being an adult about it all. Thats really huge for me. I've grown so much since the relationship before this one and its really showing.

    And one thing that I need right now is to be single. I've been feeling that for a while but I felt like because I loved now exDB, I would be fine. The last time I was single for more than 6 months was in high school. So i think its time for some Jessi TLC for a LOOOOOOONG time.
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    It isn't weird at all.
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    That means it was the right decision
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    Quote Originally Posted by ZivaD View Post

    It isn't weird at all.
    Quote Originally Posted by KickDrumHeart View Post
    That means it was the right decision
    I'm glad its not weird. It definitely feels weird to me because its a feeling I've been avoiding for a while.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KickDrumHeart View Post
    That means it was the right decision
    Definitely
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    Not weird at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KickDrumHeart View Post
    That means it was the right decision
    Agreed.
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    I have had that feeling before. It does feel kinda strange, but it does prove that it is the right decision
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    It's not weird.. it just means it's right. And that's great
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jillybean88 View Post
    Definitely
    Quote Originally Posted by Marcia View Post
    Not weird at all.
    Quote Originally Posted by sailorbear View Post
    Agreed.
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    I have had that feeling before. It does feel kinda strange, but it does prove that it is the right decision
    Quote Originally Posted by SugaInMyPockets View Post
    It's not weird.. it just means it's right. And that's great
    Thats reassuring. Like, I'm still in the sadness phase and I'm not changing FB yet and exDB and I decided to keep our tumblr for now. I think i need to get passed some of the sadness before I do that kinda of stuff. Its just really weird that we're still going to be friends. I don't think its the wrong decision because he's an important part of my life. He just won't be the central person in my life anymore... Part of me almost wants to cut him out just for a little while to heal.. but on the other hand, he's leaving for deployment in october anyway and I really want to see him before he leaves..

    Idk. I'm still trying to figure this all out. I think I'll just talk to my counselor about it and go from there. Ugh. It just sucks.

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