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    its done!

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    First of all I never thought I would be posting in this section of the forum...but after two years of marriage my husband says he wants a divorce. We were living in Savannah,ga and he tells me that he didn't think we were working out he finally said he was talking to another girl and that he had feelings for said girl. He left me on Friday 1week ago and drove back to ky which is our hometown ignored my calls and texts. I found out from a friend that he was staying with her. He got an epo (protection order) against me saying I followed him from ga to ky once he left me and he thinks that because he took his ring off and left me that what he is doing isn't cheating. He also said that he removed me as a dependent. I didn't think that was possible until after we r divorced. Anyways just needing lots of hugs and prayers as I go through this tough time. And any info you migght have about being removed as a dependent would be great. He is currently inactive reserves and getting BAH for going to school and his VA disability.

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  3. HE IS HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Thanks hugs are appreciated.



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    Seems like there's a bunch of us going through divorce. PM me if you need.
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    I'm so very sorry! Hang in there - it will hurt for a while, but in time things will get better, I promise
    I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go.
    Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right.
    You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself.
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    How shitty of him to do that to you. I don't believe it's possible for him to just remove you as a dependent, without divorce papers and/or your consent. If you can, you should check personally. When we got together, my DH was still having issues with DEERS listing his ex wife as a dependent, so I doubt it's a "sign a form and be done" type deal, without legal proof.
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    I'm really sorry you're going through this.

    I doubt it was that easy to remove you just like that. My best friend is going through a divorce. Her soon to be exDH has not been able to remove her yet from his benefits without divorce papers. Plus, he gets that extra money from the VA.

    If you need anything, let me know. I come down to Savannah quite often.
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    I'm sorry.

    XH purposely left me on and refused to sign any paperwork to show us as separated b/c he wanted the added benefits and pay, but then again- he was a shady bastard.
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