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    Whatever not so surprising......

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    All of you won't be surprised that i'm here. As well as probably relieved.

    I know i didn't post much more in that my thread "do i go left or do i go right" I took every piece of advise to heart. As well as my IRL friends and my mom.

    I talked to ExDF last week, almost broke up then. He told me he loved me, and will do better etc Against my judgement i said ok. Nothing changed. I wasn't surprised. He would disappear after 8pm, ignore my phone calls and texts. on the weekends his phone would either be off completely or still ignoring me.

    I tried to call him all weekend, and i got fed up. I'm done. I tried calling him today...no answer.

    So, i had to bring myself down to his level, and break up Via text message. After not hearing from him all weekend. I send him a long text , telling him "i'm done playing games. I'm sick of not being important to you and not mattering. I don't feel your ready to be in a serious relationship anymore. and I need somoene who wants to be with me and make me happy. I'm not happy anymore, and haven't been for awhile. So I'm done trying and fighting to be."

    His response...."ok"
    Then he sends "sorry for wte i did but i'm glad to see you finally told me the truth, go and be happy"

    WTF?! i've been telling him for weeks i'm not happy and why! i texted him that

    respone "ehh wte bye"

    :smh

    So, he and i are done. I'm no longer a MSOS. I appreciate everything you ladies have helped me through this past year or so. I dunno if i'll be around much anymore....
    I've cried enough these past few weeks, i dont think i have any tears left to cry about this.
    " u know those things that are like candy canes that taste like christmas in ur mouth what are those called?" " umm candy canes?" "Yeahhhh" R.I.P Christian

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    I'm sorry you're hurting right now.

    Just because you aren't a milso doesn't mean you can't stick around. I'm not any more either.
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    Aww I'm so sorry this is so painful. you can definitely stay and hang out here though! Hang in there..
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    Please stay.

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    thanks ladies always
    " u know those things that are like candy canes that taste like christmas in ur mouth what are those called?" " umm candy canes?" "Yeahhhh" R.I.P Christian

    907Kim is my wifey
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    I'm sorry.
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    That's always so hard, but it will get better and you made the right choice!

    Also, I got you this,



    Enjoy
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    Honestly sometimes those uncaring responses make it easy to know you did the right thing. Stick around though. DH isn't in the military anymore but I couldn't ever leave
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