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  1. in love.
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    Sob.

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    I'm going calling around for divorce attorneys on Monday.

    This really really sucks. I feel like a failure because I can't make my husband love me.

    I feel lower than dirt right now.
    hi.
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    You can't MAKE your husband do anything. He's his own person.

    If he can't see and appreciate how wonderful you are, you don't need to be with him. You need to be able to see how awesome you are for yourself, then you can find someone who sees it too.

    You'll make it through this!
  3. Come along with me, misery loves company.
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    I'm sorry
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    You deserve much better than he was giving you and you will find it in time. I'm sorry it hurts so much right now
  5. Pour a little salt, we were never here
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    He's the failure for not seeing what he had. You deserve someone who will give you everything you need.
    Camster is the best wifey ever
  7. No longer seeing where it goes, I'm in the driver's seat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KickDrumHeart View Post
    He's the failure for not seeing what he had. You deserve someone who will give you everything you need.
    This, I'm sorry hun.
  8. Ummmmm...........
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    You are not a failure.
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    "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
    Dr. Seuss
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    I'm sorry you're going through this but it honestly sounds as if you'll be better off without the extra stresses of this strenuous relationship. Marriages are work but they shouldn't be that much work.


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