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    I broke up with him

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    Well now he's exDB. He wasn't putting in any effort into our relationship. He's been home for almost a year now and since he's been back it's been a one way relationship. I told him many times before that I needed him to step up and he never did. He decided to ignore me for a week then had the audacity to say that he needed space. He is far from a bad person but we weren't seeing eye to eye about what a committed relationship was, so I ended it.

    I'm really okay with it. I feel like it was a long time coming and I was so fed up that I feel a sense of freedom now. I figure I'll stick around even though I'm no longer a milso. Thank you for the support given to me while we were together! I'll still need y'all for single people problems
  2. Come along with me, misery loves company.
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    I'm sorry but I'm glad you're doing okay
  3. No longer seeing where it goes, I'm in the driver's seat.
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    I'm glad you're doing ok. Sounds like it was for the best. I know the sense of freedom, it's something you should have single or not and when you start feeling like you don't have it in a relationship it's a sign that it's time to go.
  4. Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?
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    Good for you for doing the right thing, what is best for you. That took guts. Also glad to hear you are sticking around!!
  5. Wibbly, wobbly, timey, wimey stuff.
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    I'm happy for you because you knew to do what was best for you. Best of luck in your future endeavors!
  6. ...and carry a towel.
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    Been there, done that. If you need to talk to someone when you feel worse (and you might well end up feeling worse, at times), my pm box is open. But it sounds like it was the right decision, and good for you for taking it!
  7. No longer seeing where it goes, I'm in the driver's seat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyborg Unicorn View Post
    Been there, done that. If you need to talk to someone when you feel worse (and you might well end up feeling worse, at times), my pm box is open. But it sounds like it was the right decision, and good for you for taking it!
    She gives great advice too, FYI.
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    Thanks everyone! I've learned so much about myself. One of those being that I am so much stronger than I ever thought. I appreciate your comments
  10. Love never fails. ♥
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