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    Well this sucks

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    DB and I broke up today. As yall know I am joining the army and I gave him three choices because he was having a hard time dealing with the fact that I will be gone for a long period of time.( I went and saw a recruiter today ) 1. We can stay together and make it work LD. We wont be apart forever. 2. We end it now and if I happened to get stationed where he is we can meet up and see if the feelings are still there. 3. We just end it and not even try (which I guess is a lot like #2)

    Well he chose #2 and I was all for #1. In a way I kinda feel like I wasnt worth it for him to wait for me but then again we had only been together for 3 months and I feel like it wouldnt be right to get mad at him for not wanting to try. idk I am very confused right now. I am a bit torn. Im just keeping my mind on other things at the moment. A part of me still wants to wait and not even try to move on because of the possibility I could be with him one day in the future. We never had anything wrong in the 3 months we were together so its hard to find a good reason for me to get over him (if that makes sense) But oh well right now my priorities are studying for the asvab, joining, and AIT. It will all work out how it is supposed to.
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm sorry, but good for you for doing what's best for you.

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    And I think you're 100% right about focussing on the ASVAB and yourself until you get out of basic.

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    I'm sorry. You are right about just taking the time and focusing on yourself and your future. Best thing you can do! Best of luck!


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    I'm sorry this happened, but I think it's good that you are focusing on yourself.
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    Awe, I'm sorry! Sending my hugs to you.
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    im sooooo sorry he wasnt willing to try
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