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    Well DB just broke up with me

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    So I just got home from work and realized DB...well i guess exDB's fb didnt say a relationship status on it...so i call and he ignores me next thing i know i get a txt saying how i need to back off because he doesnt have time to waste worrying about keeping me happy. So i ask for clarification as to what he means by that like just back of a little or if we were done and he said he wants to be just friends and that he's still in love with his ex or else hed be head over heels for me and actually trying...

    we already broke up once in Nov and got back together in Dec i really thought he'd gotten his shit together and realized im a fucking good thing for him but apparently not.



    im so not ok and i dont even know what to do right now i really love him and ive bent over backward to try to help him and to make this work and i just dont know what to do
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    I'm so sorry. But you don't want to be with someone who's such a coward anyway. You deserve better than that

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    I'm so sorry. He doesn't deserve you at all.
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    : hugs you deserve so much better! I know it's hard right now but I think it'll be best for you in the long run if he's so wishy washy and unsure. Hang in there!
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    it sounds like he's a fool. It sounds like you've tried to be there for him and he isn't deserving of someone like you.
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    If he doesn't realize how good you are for him, and still wants another woman, then he's not worth your time sweetie. you deserve someone who realizes what a catch you are and that seeing you happy is something that makes him happy
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    I'm so sorry. YOU don't have time to worry about HIM....you deserve better!


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    As hard as it may be right now, move on. This guy is not the one for you and doesn't deserve your tears.





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    Quote Originally Posted by ioverton View Post
    I'm so sorry. YOU don't have time to worry about HIM....you deserve better!
    Quote Originally Posted by Johanna View Post
    If he doesn't realize how good you are for him, and still wants another woman, then he's not worth your time sweetie. you deserve someone who realizes what a catch you are and that seeing you happy is something that makes him happy
    Quote Originally Posted by better2gether View Post
    it sounds like he's a fool. It sounds like you've tried to be there for him and he isn't deserving of someone like you.
    Quote Originally Posted by photographerkate View Post
    : hugs you deserve so much better! I know it's hard right now but I think it'll be best for you in the long run if he's so wishy washy and unsure. Hang in there!
    Quote Originally Posted by sailorbear View Post
    I'm so sorry. He doesn't deserve you at all.
    Quote Originally Posted by the_lepus View Post
    I'm so sorry. But you don't want to be with someone who's such a coward anyway. You deserve better than that
    thank you all.

    it just hurts so bad, i havent dumped like this since like high school. im always the one who doesnt try and who walks away too easily.
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    I'm so sorry. You deserve better.
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