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    taking a break

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    as of Monday night, DF (more like DB) and I have taking a break.

    Mainly because there are things in my life I need to work on/want to accomplish and also because he's lazy and he's lied to me and he has massive and I mean MASSIVE amounts of debt. And its stupid debt from just continuously spending money he doesn't/didn't have. He is childish and irresponsible.

    I'm trying to let him down easy so I don't cause a lot of trouble. He owes my sister $900 and I'd rather my parents not have to take him to court in order to get it. (he signed a paper saying that he would have her paid back by July 15th)

    I've never been happier. I'm definitely enjoying a stress free life right now. Even though he owes my sister I'm not worried about it because I know she'll get her money one way or another.


    All I have to say about the last 7 months is that sometimes you don't realize just how unhappy you've been until you are truly happy again.



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    I'm glad you're feeling so good about this. DH and I are taking kind of a break right now, re-integration has been very very tough, I wish I could feel as great as you
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    I don't blame you one bit as a lot of that would be deal breakers for me too. I'm glad you are happy
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    you made the right call




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    I'm happy you realized this before you walked down the aisle. Life is too short to be miserable
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    I am glad that you are feeling so positive about this.
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    Being happy again is awesome! I hope you accomplish everything you want to during this time.

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