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    Well...we are done!

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    I posted a thread a while ago that we were taking a break. We were taking things slowly, until Friday when he was out, and drinking (AGAIN!) and called me to tell me that while he was mad at me he invited another girl to the USMC ball that we were supposed to go to together, that I bought a $300 dress for, etc. Then he tells me he was sorry, and told her that he loves me and is going to marry me, and that she can't go. Well, I know this girl. Well, I don't KNOW her, but she used to be my friend on FB, never met her in person, and neither has HE!! She is a friend of one of his friends's wives, and I did some snooping, found her instagram, and turns out he sent her a "countdown picture" of him with a thingie that says (girl's name) <3 is coming in __ days November 14th. I confronted him, of course he said he didn't know what I was talking about, then he said "well we were taking things slow". SO YOU ASK ANOTHER GIRL TO THE BALL THAT YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO GO TO WITH ME?? He cried, said he loves me, She is from out of State, so I asked him if he bought her a plane ticket, he wouldn't answer, which is answer enough for me! I can't freaking believe this!! Then he said "it's not what it looks like, we are just going as friends". I was his fiance He chooses some other girl to go to the ball over his fiance???

    I feel like I was punched in the gut I need hugs!
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    You don't deserve that at all!

    "Thank you so much. No matter what, nothing is possible without you behind the scenes bustin heads and takin names. Thank you again. Everything you have done for me means a lot and nothing has gone unnoticed. I love you so much and thank you for saying 'I do.'"
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    I'm sorry you deserve a lot better.
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    I remember you posting about him and his drinking problems, and I know you're sad but I think you're sooo much better off!! If you wanna talk, I'm here.


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    Thanks! Oh, then when I confronted him, he asked me how many guys I have fucked, and he "knows" I have. Out of nowhere. I never cheated on him. Ever. I don't even know what to say. I'm just numb! I hope I can still stay here even though I'm not a military SO anymore!
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    I am so sorry!
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    Oh wow! I'm so so sorry you're going through this. You deserve someone who will respect you, adore you, and do anything to be with you. That person is clearly not him. I'm here as well if you need someone to vent to.
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    What a massive dirtbag. I'm so sorry that he's put you through this. You deserve a lot better.
    Where are we going and why are we in a handbasket?
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    I am so sorry you are hurting.
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    I am so very sorry. You definitely deserve better than all that.


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