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    Never thought I'd be posting in here so soon...

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    Yep. The end.

    Skyped DB yesterday and he said he felt like we were becoming distant. Apparently he'd felt this way for awhile before he came to visit me and didn't want to say anything because he thought it would be temporary, but it came back after he left. I asked him if he was happy with us and with me. He said he would always be happy with me and that I was an amazing person, but that the distance was just weighing too heavily on our relationship.

    This isn't the first time he's voiced doubts like these. So I said if he wasn't happy, then I should let him go so that he can be. We both cried. We agreed to give each other space for a few months and maybe try to be friends again down the line. ...and that was it. When just last week we were celebrating two years.

    I woke up to a voicemail from him this morning saying that he was stupid to let me go, I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He said didn't want to play Russian Roulette with my heart, but if I would take him back he'd fight for us with all he had. And that he knew I had to think about it and didn't expect a reply any time soon. But the thing is, as much as I love him and want to be with him, I don't think he's thinking clearly. I think he wants to forget that maybe he's just not suited for long distance. And as much as it hurts, I think we need a few months by ourselves before we're able to think clearly about any of this.

    I just can't even believe this right now.
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    First of all, x 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000!

    Secondly, I want you both to take some time and be apart and see where your lives take you.

    You never know what the future holds hon. If anyone knows that, it's me. PM me if you ever want to talk.

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    I'm sorry OP!! I think you have a good head on your shoulders and you are making the right decision by going with his initial suggestion to take time apart. See what happens and go from there I'm thinking of you!!
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    I am sorry you are going through this but it sounds like you are making the best decision for yourself. I think it may benefit both of you to take a break and see where it takes you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bubble Butt View Post
    First of all, x 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000!

    Secondly, I want you both to take some time and be apart and see where your lives take you.

    You never know what the future holds hon. If anyone knows that, it's me. PM me if you ever want to talk.
    That's the plan...it breaks my heart, but I really think it's best. I know that at the very least, we parted on good terms and we may be able to stay friends. But I do think we need to be apart to figure out what we want for ourselves. If we're meant to work out, we will, I guess.

    Thanks for the hugs, everyone.
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    I am so sorry. I am glad that you are looking out for yourself, as painful as that is.
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    I can't give you enough hugs right now As much as this must suck I am glad that you are looking out for yourself
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    I was in your exact shoes a few months ago. Feel free to PM me
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