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    He's leaving me

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    Chris deployed about a month ago. On Saturday I found out he wants a divorce. He's been pretty steady in resolve though he told me he would think about working things out. He talked to the chaplain today but it treating me kind of like dirt, so I don't know. Today is his birthday. I should be talking to him and laughing with him about what presents he wants when he gets home, but instead I'm sitting here dying.

    I've had so much going on and this on top of it is killing me. I can't eat lately. I can't function. It's all I can do to drag myself out of bed in the morning, and even that I just do so I can sit on the computer and see if he signs online. I'm dreading going to work tomorrow. I work all through his normal waking hours, so I know I won't talk to him and I am falling apart. I just want my husband to love me.

    I mean, it's over though. At least in his eyes. There's nothing I can do. I just need to try to find the will to live I guess. It's so hard right now. I love him so much.


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    Im so sorry to read this..I really hope he comes around and gives your love a chance *sending hugs your way*
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    I'm so sorry. I really hope you guys can work it out.
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm sorry!
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    I am so sorry that you are hurting, wish we could all be there to give a you and support you through this.
    So close your eyes and sleep to dream. I'm by your side. No words to speak. We'll set our course and make it through. No matter how far, my heart remains with you.
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    We dont really talk but I want you to know that I am thinking about you and if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen or anything at all please feel free to PM me. Im not great with advice giving but just know that, whatever the outcome may be, you will get through this. Lots and lots of chica.
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    I'm so sorry. I hope that his views change when he has more time to think it through.
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