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    Bang Head Well I sure ended up in this sub-forum fast...

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    Perfect guy. Got my ring size, picked out a ring, told his parents two days before we went on a long vacation with fifteen of his friends where I RIDICULOUSLY thought he would surely propose. Never fought, argued, all his friends loved me and mine him. Match made in heaven.

    Then he broke up with me the first night of vacation. I slept on the floor. Four days of vacation we pretend nothing happened as not to crash the party. Then he takes me home gets his stuff and leaves.

    Two nights ago he comes over like nothing happened, cuddle, watch movies, love on each other...if you know what I mean. I say "I love you" he says "Ditto"...odd.

    I wake up in bed alone to him sitting on the couch bags packed, says goodbye no kiss, then texts later and says "Let's just be friends".

    And he leaves in 11 days.

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    damn....

    im really sorry. it seems like he was being sort of nice about it thought.


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    I'm sorry.
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    You sound better off. I don't know you or your relationship at all, but he does NOT seem interested in investing time in you at all. If he can seriously just up and pack and leave, don't even think about it. Move onward.
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    There was no explanation what-so-ever. I've gone through every second of our relationship to try and find that "moment it was over" there's nothing. It was just perfect. None of his friends know what the hell is going on with him, it's completely out of his character. He is nice...but...that sugar coated booty call really makes me mad.

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    Honestly, as much as it hurt, I told him I deserved better after he said let's just be friends and that's just that. I mean, was that wrong?
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    All I know is I would not have slept with him after he had broken up with me, to me that makes it seems like he was playing you. I'm sorry you're dealing with this


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    Yeah Brianna...stupid broken heart thinking, not my brain.
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    Quote Originally Posted by briannanoel View Post
    All I know is I would not have slept with him after he had broken up with me, to me that makes it seems like he was playing you. I'm sorry you're dealing with this
    I would have been like "uh, no. Go home, im not your GF anymore"

    Sorry he did this, he sounds like a major douche.
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    Things he said that were lies....
    "There's nothing you can do to get rid of me"
    "Will you marry me?"
    "I see us with 2 kids in five years"
    Which I NEVER brought up, he did.

    what the...gaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coquette View Post
    There was no explanation what-so-ever. I've gone through every second of our relationship to try and find that "moment it was over" there's nothing. It was just perfect. None of his friends know what the hell is going on with him, it's completely out of his character. He is nice...but...that sugar coated booty call really makes me mad.

    ETA

    Honestly, as much as it hurt, I told him I deserved better after he said let's just be friends and that's just that. I mean, was that wrong?
    No. Boyfriends don't treat girlfriends like that and friends don't treat friends like that. You deserve better in both.
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