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    For the 2nd and final time...

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    DB and I are breaking up and just going back to being friends. He really does not handle long distance very well. When I was deployed we had a lot of problems and broke up. When I came home from deployment we just kind of fell back into our relationship and ended up making plans to buy a house in AZ where he is living now.

    Well with both of us having depression and weak communication it's really taken a toll on our relationship. He won't talk to me or anyone about anything. He started to open up to me a little bit but when I tried to talk to him about it he got frustrated and said he needed space. After two weeks of not talking I got fed up and texted him. We talked for a little bit and I asked him if we were going to be okay, he said he didn't know.

    Since he doesn't like to communicate and being long distance for the next few years, communication is needed, we decided to just be friends. Since this isn't the first time this has happened, it made us realize how our relationship isn't as strong as we had hoped and we don't see anyway to really make it work.

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    I'm sorry Katie
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  4. The name says it all!
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    I'm sorry, Katie. It sucks but it also opens you up to receive the right guy when it's time. Take time to mourn the relationship and then move on. I'm always here if you need me, girl.

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  5. After all this time? Always.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AwwSnail View Post
    I'm sorry this is happening, but I also think it shows how strong you are to recognize when it's working and what it is not; as hard as that may seem. Keep doing what you need to and take the time you need to heal from this.


    I am so sorry that things aren't working, but it takes an incredibly strong person to be able to realize that and make a decision to move forward in a manner that will hopefully work better. Good for you. Many
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    I'm sorry


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    I'm sorry babe



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    I know how tough it can be. Feel free to pm me anytime
  9. No longer seeing where it goes, I'm in the driver's seat.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Naughty Minx View Post
    I'm sorry, Katie. It sucks but it also opens you up to receive the right guy when it's time. Take time to mourn the relationship and then move on. I'm always here if you need me, girl.
    Quote Originally Posted by AwwSnail View Post
    I'm sorry this is happening, but I also think it shows how strong you are to recognize when it's working and what it is not; as hard as that may seem. Keep doing what you need to and take the time you need to heal from this.
    Quote Originally Posted by Er-my-knee View Post


    I am so sorry that things aren't working, but it takes an incredibly strong person to be able to realize that and make a decision to move forward in a manner that will hopefully work better. Good for you. Many
    with all these. I'm sorry hun
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    It sounds like this is the best decision for both of you for now - but it is still hard. Many hugs!

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