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    Knight in shining armor, turn out to be a douche in tin foil!

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    This is gonna be long sorry.
    Hi, I used to post on these boards yrs ago, well I think only like a very few times lol, in fact my name is my exes, who I broke up almost 2 yrs ago. I do lurk here and there though.


    Well about a year after a bad break up, I tried dating here and there and nothing came of any of it, I had no interest. I then meet this guy, who took me by surprise, amazing chemistry, handsome, sweet good ole country boy, who is in the Marines.
    I fell for him pretty quickly, everything was really good.
    He then gets deployed. So the last 5 months he has been gone. Well, we do our best to communicate as much as we can, and keep everything going. He said he wanted to marry me when he got back, loves me so much, I make him very happy.
    So the last 2 months he acts as if I am cheating on him all the time.
    Stalks my FB tells me what pics I better delete, and just acting controlling.
    Stops asking or seeming to care about my day to day life. All he wanted when we could talk was for me to be his porn star, ok and I did it..but at times I was tired cause it would be so late at night for me.
    I did the best I could. Well, I start getting tired of him just wanting that and not really talking with me. Also, I have been busy lately. So I had not done the whole dirty talk thing in a few weeks. So he starts being an ass to me. Then a week ago, he apologized, said he loves me and I should know that and he can't wait to marry me and all this BS! Only for me 2 days ago, for me to catch him in a lie about some girl on FB and him flirting and commenting on half naked pics of her! I guess he thought her profile was private. I confront him he lies. Today I busted him. He goes off on me, like I did something wrong! Then deletes me and blocks me and will not respond to me! I am soooo ughghgh I don't even know what!! I feel like I wanna explode!!
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    Wow. Sounds like he cheated on you when you mentioned earlier that he started being controlling. Cheaters tend to project and think everyone around them is cheating too bc they're so paranoid of being caught.

    If you haven't already, you should probably cut your losses and run. He sounds controlling and manipulative. It's odd that it was later on but i guess some tigers take longer to show their stripes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie. View Post
    Wow. Sounds like he cheated on you when you mentioned earlier that he started being controlling. Cheaters tend to project and think everyone around them is cheating too bc they're so paranoid of being caught.

    If you haven't already, you should probably cut your losses and run. He sounds controlling and manipulative. It's odd that it was later on but i guess some tigers take longer to show their stripes.

    Some guys (if you can call them that) wait longer to cheat.

    None the less hunny you deserve a lot better, keep going out there you will find someone eventually
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hottie. View Post
    Wow. Sounds like he cheated on you when you mentioned earlier that he started being controlling. Cheaters tend to project and think everyone around them is cheating too bc they're so paranoid of being caught.

    If you haven't already, you should probably cut your losses and run. He sounds controlling and manipulative. It's odd that it was later on but i guess some tigers take longer to show their stripes.



    OP... Just walk away! You deserve better.
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    Sounds like you've dodged a bullet. Move on and put him in the past. You can find a good man that will treat you right. He ain't IT.





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    Thank you ladies so much! Just hurts I have been through so much. He came into my life when I was at my lowest. He gave me hope that there were good men out there. He really had me fooled! I'm gonna be 35 on the 22 of this month. I'm not dumb and I been through it before. Im just not ready to be 35! I want to be a mom so badly, I am afraid i may
    never get to that point! Just can't believe he was that good at fooling me. I wasted my time!

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