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    Question I don't know if I'm here...

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    So the boy might be breaking up with me. His words, "I think we might need to break up". And right now I just need someone who has been there and done that. For added info, he just left for his technically second TDY. During his first 3 week TDY he started this too but this one is 3 months.
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    I went through a similar situation with my ex DF. Has he told you a specific reason or that he's on TDY
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    He said...a bunch of weird things and then didn't finish the conversation.
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    needs someone who has been there and done that? thats a new one! Im sure you can find better. Thats a shitty excuse to break up with someone.
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    needs someone who has been there and done that? thats a new one! Im sure you can find better. Thats a shitty excuse to break up with someone.
    I was saying *I* need someone who has been there and done that. Someone to talk to about whats going on.
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    I would tell him to call me when he figured himself out. I can't deal with the wishy washy stuff.





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    I am sorry love feel free to pm me
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    So I've got him to comment to talking tomorrow. I don't know if we will do voice or text but I have been working on a list of issues and things that NEED to be discussed. Could you fine folks look them over and maybe help me think of anything else I could bring up?

    1. Issue with Ex txting and V-Day
    2. Issue with anime website
    3. Issue with Dating website; short and long term relationships selected, not worried about friend selection
    4. Time Off between talking
    5. Not sharing thoughts
    6. Being relunctinct about talking about activities
    7. Being closed lipped
    8. Not talking about stress or sharing worries
    9. Trust concerning 1,2,3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Postal_Bunny View Post
    So I've got him to comment to talking tomorrow. I don't know if we will do voice or text but I have been working on a list of issues and things that NEED to be discussed. Could you fine folks look them over and maybe help me think of anything else I could bring up?

    1. Issue with Ex txting and V-Day
    2. Issue with anime website
    3. Issue with Dating website; short and long term relationships selected, not worried about friend selection
    4. Time Off between talking
    5. Not sharing thoughts
    6. Being relunctinct about talking about activities
    7. Being closed lipped
    8. Not talking about stress or sharing worries
    9. Trust concerning 1,2,3
    He has done all the above? Yeah...I'd just break it off. One or two or maybe 3 out of those...I could work through but NINE? No way! I'd cut my losses here. Sorry OP
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