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    I can't (language)

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    So as some of you know exDF and I had started talking again and we were going to try to take things slow and see if we could work things out.

    Things were going pretty well, we both felt a lot less pressure and we both felt that the 8 months apart was way too long. We both still loved each other very much.

    Well fast forward to last week, he stayed with me for 6 days. It was nice a first, and then he went right back to his old self. Sleeping all day, not trying to communicate with anyone, blah blah blah. So I told him that I don't think it's going to work, because I had been putting in so much effort in order to make it work (which I realize you can't do) and he wasn't trying at all. He had had a few drinks before I told him this. So, I went outside to cool off. I was outside for about 5 minutes or so, and when I came back inside he was gone (he doesn't have a car).

    Now this is a problem because I don't live in a good area (and it was late at night) and he doesn't know his way around here, or know anyone else here. So, I called and called and called and finally he decided to pick up and the only thing he would say to me was "fuck you" and he did this the next 3 times I called. So I called his best friend and told him to call him and get his ass back to my house. Which he did.

    Basically, I can't put up with this bullshit anymore. It's absolutely ridiculous and not worth it to me.
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    you need to be good to you and feel good with whoever you are with.

    I can't really give advice now, I'm at the end of my rope too.
    Livestrong... is all I can say.
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    I'm not real good with advice, but I wanted to offer some

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    sometimes no matter how much we love someone, they aren't the right person to share our lives with. I'm so sorry it's turning out this way, but it sounds like maybe now is just not the right time for the two of you? I am so sorry you're going through this, and send many that things work out for the best
    I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go.
    Things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right.
    You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself.
    And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.

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    Sounds like a petulant child. I would move on too.





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    I'm so sorry. Good for you for realizing you need to take care of yourself. Cause it doesn't sound like he's going to.



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    Still just as much in love with you as the day we wed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    Sounds like a petulant child. I would move on too.


    You're supposed to be his girlfriend, not his mommy or babysitter. He needs to put in effort and since he can't seem to be bothered, adios.

    I'm glad you're taking care of you.



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