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    Welp... here I am.

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    I know, no surprise to most of you! Some of you are giving me a mental high-five at the moment.

    We finally had "the talk." I told him I'm sick of his bullshit, and refuse to stay with him since he's acting this way. He agreed, and said he's just changed so much and needs his space right now. Obviously I could have told myself that one. I know I deserve better.

    It just hurts so bad. Even though I know it's the right thing to do and he's been an ass. I just feel like the last year of my life while he was deployed was all about him, and I was even making plans to move to be with him this summer. I've been there for everything throughout his deployment and his Army career so far. It just sucks. Really, really sucks. A 3-year relationship and an 8-year friendship over. I just don't even know him anymore. And I'm not sure I could ever go back to him after all this bullshit the past few weeks.

    He didn't even seem that upset when we talked. I told him to go have fun screwing his ex.
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    I'm sorry cupcake!
    Put on your big girl panties and deal with it like a boss.

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    I'm sorry you are hurting....but I think you are better off for it. You deserve better.





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    I'm so sorry!
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    Sorry sweetie, but you truly are better off without him.

    DH: Thank you. ME: For what, babe? DH: For being you.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    I'm sorry you are hurting....but I think you are better off for it. You deserve better.
    This. ((hugs))
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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    I'm sorry you are hurting....but I think you are better off for it. You deserve better.
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    I'm sorry you are hurting. You deserve so much better than what he could offer.
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    I'm so sorry girlie. Incredible how people can act like that. Time heals all wounds.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    I'm sorry you are hurting....but I think you are better off for it. You deserve better.
    I agree.
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