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    I emailed him

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    I know that's not what you're "supposed" to do. But I know this man better than I know anyone in the world. And this is just not him. Yes, he's an idiot sometimes and we have communication issues, but he's not this person.

    He fought too hard for us to give up right before we were finally going to be together. There had to be something else going on. As much as he hurt me, for him to do that...whatever that something is would have to be pretty serious. He's been too important to me for too long to just let it go.

    My pain and anxiety about his behavior clouded my judgement and my ability to see clearly what was going on. Yes, he was wrong to treat me that way, but I was wrong to be so dismissive as well.

    Anyway, he emailed me back. We're going to talk sometime this week.

    This does not mean we're getting back together. It just means we'll talk. And I'll get some answers. And then we'll go from there. And we'll go slowly.

    I hope you all don't think I'm weak for this. Then again, maybe I am. Too weak to let my best friend leave my life without a fight. He's never treated me like this or anything near it before. I couldn't, I can't, let that friendship go.



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    Did I miss your post on what happened?
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    you are not weak
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    I think, given your past, this was a good move. Getting a clear understanding of what is going on is important. I hope you guys can give each other the answers you want/need.
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    Nvm, I found it. That doesn't make you weak. Getting over a break-up, especially without closure, is extremely difficult. I know from experience. Maybe talking to him will either clear things up or give you some type of closure. Lots of
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    I don't think you are weak at all. You know him well, and if this is out of character for him, then maybe you do need to talk to him. I hope you get the answers that you need.
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    I don't blame you for wanting to talk to him about all of this.
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    . You're not weak at all! You feel like you need to fight and there is nothing wrong with saying you did EVERYTHING possible within your power to make it work
    Put on your big girl panties and deal with it like a boss.

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    I actually heard this song while I was at work. And that's what prompted it. Well, it's what pushed me to do it. Because I do know him, and it wasn't him. Skillet - Believe



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    I don't think you're weak at all. If I thought there was something really worth saving in my relationship, you bet your ass I'd be doing the same thing. If something seems amiss, then by all means go for it.
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