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    I can't believe this crap.

    Chris broke up with me like.. 9 or 10PM on Monday. I changed my facebook status while we were on the phone and facebook didn't show the post on my actual profile so I couldn't delete it. It wasn't until I got a notification that someone "liked it" that I was able to see it to delete it.

    I went to bed pretty much right after. Went to work the next day and left my phone at home. I've been ignoring all my calls, I don't want to talk to anybody. While I was at work yesterday (approximately 18 hours after we broke up) I got a call from grandmother. I didn't check my voicemail until just now, because I had like 8 backed up that I needed to check from the past two days.

    Anyways, I guess during the time between being dumped, sleeping, and going to work the next day my stupid fucking great uncle whom I never speak to and have blocked from all my wall posts and statuses (don't know how he saw the relationship status, but I couldn't even find it to delete it so who knows) CALLED MY GRANDMOTHER AND TOLD HER CHRIS AND I BROKE UP. WTF. He doesn't know anything about me or Chris or our relationship, I haven't seen him in well over a year and he's never even met Chris.

    Well the voicemail that I just checked... was my grandma calling to bitch me the hell out because I didn't tell her Chris and I broke up. Seriously? Are you kidding me?

    I tell my grandma everything, I love her to death. I am so hurt that she would call me and leave that nasty voicemail... she told me I was awful! I can't believe this. I hate facebook. I'm defriending my stupid uncle... I'm only friends with him out of familial obligation.

    It was like 18 hours. I hadn't spoken to ANYONE. I am absolutely heart broken right now and my grandma had to call and tell me I'm awful cause of a fucking facebook relationship status that I didn't even want visible? I'm so hurt.
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    you are NOT awful try and explain to her that you didn't want to talk about it in the moment and you were planning on telling her
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    I wouldn't have even had time to tell her in the amount that lapsed between break up and phone call. I hadn't even gotten home from work yet. And I certainly wasn't going to call her at ten PM right after it happened. I could hardly breathe.
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    I hate Facebook. It's the devil.
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    I am so sorry hon! Can you explain to her?!
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    Well, that certainly was supportive of her.

    I'm sorry, I'm kinda dumbstruck on this one. I just don't get how people act this way with Facebook.

    I'm really sorry this great-uncle whatever just piled onto what you're going through, though.
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    I'm sure she just lashed out because she was hurt thinking he knew before her. You'll be able to work it out.
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