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    he is such a prick

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    i knew this was coming, i just don't want it to. exDF will be back from his 12 month deployment SUPER soon, and back in my hometown exactly over my spring break week. ()

    he asked back in november if we could meet for lunch sometime that week and talk, he really wouldn't let me say no. i'm dreading it.

    on top of that, this childish immature bullshit continues on. just a few hours after i changed my facebook status to 'in a relationship', he changed his to 'married' to some girl he went to high school with. i can't imagine this is true, so my guess is it was to piss me off. and then his mother wrote on her wall (i'm friends with this girl too) 'welcome to the family!'



    this is so stupid. i hate him. i hate his family. i know facebook is the devil and i should delete all of them. i just can't believe how clearly i can see now how shitty of a person he is.
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    Why don't you block them for a while? You don't have to unfriend them, but it will hide their activity until you're ready to see it. I know it helped me heal when it came to my ex.

    I'm sorry you're going through this.

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    I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. Is there any way you can get out of seeing him? It just seems like it will make you more mad and like he really isn't worth your time.

    Then again if you want the extra closure that's totally understandable. I'm sorry it's so hard!
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    You don't have to see anyone you don't want to see!! If you don't want to lunch with him.. don't answer the phone or let him see that it bothers you.
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    I would delete and keep your distance from him. If you do not want to see him, don't. You have that choice.
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    I would force a huge step back
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    You don't have to see him hun. And I agree with PP to block him and his family.
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    #9
    Quote Originally Posted by Crystal View Post
    I would delete and keep your distance from him. If you do not want to see him, don't. You have that choice.
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    Why would you be forced into seeing him? There seems to be no purpose. And why continue to subject yourself to his behavior, yes, by all means, delete him and his family.

    He is your EX for a reason.
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