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    Nutts Birthday blues...

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    So DB finally got set up in Afghanistan and I finally got to chat with him since he got there, and he broke up with me.....


    ....on my birthday.


    I don't know how things changed so much from when I kissed him at the airport to this, in just a few weeks, but it has.

    The last year has been to hard. Too up and down, and I've been giving too much and getting so little in return. He's going through so much right now outside of being deployed that he's can't give me what I want.

    Strangely, it was a good end even through I'm heartbroken. I think I've just just become so exhausted with our emotional rollercoaster that I don't have any more fight left in me. Its almost a relief.

    But anyway, there it is...and the ironic thing is for my birthday I actually got a 'Boyfriend' (the new fragrance from Sephora that is! ).

    I think exDB and I may actually be able to become friends in the end....its so strange.

    He keeps checking in on me to make sure I'm ok.

    I've got a bunch of people coming over to celebrate my birthday today, and on 3 hours of sleep all i wanna do is sit numbly in my bed.

    Ugh, I feel so weird......

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    The stakes high. The water's rough, but this love is ours."
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    I am so sorry.
    Honestly, I'd ask him to leave you be for a bit, rather than keep "checking" on you, that is just poking at the wound.
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    I'm sorry this happened to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZivaD View Post

    I am so sorry.
    Honestly, I'd ask him to leave you be for a bit, rather than keep "checking" on you, that is just poking at the wound.




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    I'm sorry. I hope the rest of your birthday is better.
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    I'm sorry I hope you still have an awesome birthday!
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    Wow what a sucky thing to happen on your birthday of all days
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    First:

    Second: I'm so sorry!! He really should have talked to you before he deployed. This doesn't seem to have come out of the blue, I think he had been thinking about it for a while. I know it will take time, but i understand about staying friends. Me and my exDB are best friends. He's the person I go to to laugh, get comfort, advice, motivation, etc. But again, it's going to take time.

    Try to enjoy your birthday. It will make you feel better tomorrow even if tonight it doesn't feel so good.
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    bleck, what a terrible birthday present. Tell him to stop checking up on you, and give you space. Then party it up!! You've got people coming over to celebrate you because they care about you. I know it's terrible, but you'll get through it Enjoy your birthday as best you can.


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