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    He ended things last night, on my birthday none the less.

    Though the timing is kind of my fault, since I pushed him to tell me what has been going on. Things have been different for months. He told me he didnt know he wasn't 'feeling' it anymore. Hasn't been for awhile but was going to wait to see how things were when he came home in july. I asked him how long awhile was and he said like a month before he came home (from deployment, I made him clarify).

    So I guess Im glad I didnt let him string me on for a few more months, but at the same time I am completely crushed. He said he loved me, wanted to marry me. We talked wedding (recently) and then to tell me he wasn't 'feeling' it anymore. And he loved me just wasnt in love with me, but wanted to try to make himself be. Im sorry but thats not how love works

    Better now than later but I wish he would have owned up sooner. Instead back in December he pushed me to be with his family at christmas. In november he pushed me to be with them for thanksgiving. I got close to his dad, who passed away, because he wanted me to be close to his family. And yes they are awesome, but now what? We're over and so Im left with an even bigger pain.

    If he would have talked to me about it when it first started happening I would have told him we can take a step back and just be friends. But instead I have to make him confess to me months later. It hurts. I feel like he just wanted me so he could be in a relationship, at least until something better came along.

    Im sorry I know this is long but Im just a mess.
    Thanks for listening/reading
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    so many . i'm so sorry.
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    I'm sorry.
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    Thanks ladies, I was just really hoping I was wrong, but I guess not.
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    I'm so sorry hon! I'm here if you need to talk.

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    I am so sorry. The timing really sucks.

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    I'm so sorry. If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me. But like you said atleast you learned now and not down the road.


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