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View Poll Results: Can you be friends with ex's?

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    friends with ex's?

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    do you think you can be friends with your ex's?
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    dumb.
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    I m friends with some, good friends with 1, never hear from others!

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    I think it depends on the circumstances surrounding the breakup, and the people involved.
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    I could if i wanted to but i don't want to.

    I don't see a reason to be friends with an ex.

    You're out of my life, you're out of my life. Period

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    Quote Originally Posted by jellybeanerr View Post
    dumb.
    youre dumb twattlle
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    I said no, never.

    I could be and I have been BUT since being in my relationship with DH we have set boundaries and being friends with ex's is a no no in our relationship!... But thats just us!
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    agreed... I am friends with one for the most part but most of the others were reeeeeeeeeeeally bad break ups (either they were controlling or they couldn't deal with the fact that i actually broke up with them and moved on). But one I had we still talk from time to time... we aren't buddy buddy... but we converse when we can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleRed View Post
    I think it depends on the circumstances surrounding the breakup, and the people involved.

    be cool.
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    I think it depends on you, your ex, and how you broke up. I personally wanted to be friends with my ex but he wouldn't have it.

    He tried to get back together with me a year after we broke up when I was happily with current DB. I told him no, but we could be friends (enough time had passed for me that all wounds were healed and I didn't have any feelings for him anymore). He on the other hand said he could never "just be friends" with a girl. Oh well.
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