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    are officially separated. According to SC laws, we have to be legally separated for a year before the divorce. I got the papers signed back from him today for the legal separation.

    One year and i can be completely done with him and have him out of my life.


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    I'm so sorry hon. My inbox is open if you need to talk about anything.

    DH: Thank you. ME: For what, babe? DH: For being you.




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    I'm not really upset about the fact we're getting divorced, more upset that it even came to this.

    What i really want to know is why did he even want to marry me if he KNEW he wasnt going to be faithful for even a few months?!

    He was talking about having babies, and plans for when he got home and everything, and now that i think about it, the baby talk was more than likely because he knew that if i had his kid, i wouldnt go anywhere. So now i'm really glad i didn't get pregnant!
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    i remember you posting a thread saying you were going to try and work things out. what happened with that? if you dont mind me asking
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    I wish I knew what to say but all I can do is give you lovins..I mean hugs
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    Quote Originally Posted by Melsy9210 View Post
    Thanks

    I'm not really upset about the fact we're getting divorced, more upset that it even came to this.

    What i really want to know is why did he even want to marry me if he KNEW he wasnt going to be faithful for even a few months?!

    He was talking about having babies, and plans for when he got home and everything, and now that i think about it, the baby talk was more than likely because he knew that if i had his kid, i wouldnt go anywhere. So now i'm really glad i didn't get pregnant!

    Oh, wow... this sucks. I totally know what you're saying (bolded)... sometimes OUT is the only way. But to deal with the aftermath and the knowledge that it even had to come to the big D is PAINFUL, PAINFUL, PAINFUL. My divorce was probably the best decision I ever made, truly, but the process was brutal. Sometimes what's right isn't always what's easy.
    If he wasn't faithful, then you are doing the right thing for you. I hope it's a quick year for you so that you can finally put it all behind you - officially.
    Inbox open if you ever want/need to use it.
    I miss him so much... but I love him even more. And that makes all the difference!
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    Infidelity is really hard to deal with in a marriage, BTDT.

    I hope the best for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassie! View Post
    i remember you posting a thread saying you were going to try and work things out. what happened with that? if you dont mind me asking
    We were going to try. He convinced me to give him a year to prove to me that he could/would be faithful and all that but then he cheated again so i told him that i was NOT going to put up with that for my whole life, and went and talked to a lawyer.

    Everyone tells me i should get alimony and whatever else i can get from him, but honestly, that would mean he would still be in my life at least a little and i don't want that. While we're married, i want the money i'm supposed to get but after the divorce, i just want him GONE. I don't want to deal with his bs, and his drama.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SSGgf View Post

    Oh, wow... this sucks. I totally know what you're saying (bolded)... sometimes OUT is the only way. But to deal with the aftermath and the knowledge that it even had to come to the big D is PAINFUL, PAINFUL, PAINFUL. My divorce was probably the best decision I ever made, truly, but the process was brutal. Sometimes what's right isn't always what's easy.
    If he wasn't faithful, then you are doing the right thing for you. I hope it's a quick year for you so that you can finally put it all behind you - officially.
    Inbox open if you ever want/need to use it.
    Thanks. Out is definitely the best option here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Veronica Lin View Post
    Infidelity is really hard to deal with in a marriage, BTDT.

    I hope the best for you.
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