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    Grumpy DESTROYED </3

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    SO DB HAS BEEN HOME FOR A FEW WEEKS... ONE NIGHT HE WAS KNOCKED OUT SLEEPING. AND I DECIDED TO GO THRU HIS PHONE..AND 2 NOTEBOOKS HE HAS. SOMETHING TOLD ME TO DO IT...

    AND WHAT I FOUND COMPLETELY DESTROYED ME.

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    HERE'S WHAT HAPPENED SORRY, SOME SNOOPS HERE AT WORK::

    i found he has 2 other girlfriends...him knowing what i went thru with my ex (he was abusive mentally and physically also cheated, we were together for 3 yrs) idk how someone could have the heart and still do something like that. right now i'm trying to keep my cool...i kno how i can get when i'm angry. so i'm trying to choose my words wisely. thank u girls for your support...u dont kno how much i appreciate it. and my PM doesn't work...still a newbie.
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    I'm sorry you found something that hurt you. Best you can do it talk to him about it.

    Depends what it is if I'd say it was anything seriours.
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    I'm sorry. Can't really say much without knowing what you found but I hope you will work through it, with him or on your own!
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    Generally yelling at people (typing in all caps) is frowned upon.

    I'm sorry that whatever you found hurt you. As a forewarrning, some people will say that if you go looking for something, you will always find it. I don't necessarily think that's true, but I do think that "snooping" is a sign of something wrong, generally.

    Talk to him, confront him with what you found, and decide how to proceed from there.
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    I'm sorry that what you found hurt you so much. Feel free to PM if you need to talk to someone about it

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    Quote Originally Posted by kalibug View Post
    I'm sorry. Can't really say much without knowing what you found but I hope you will work through it, with him or on your own!
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    without knowing what it is you found, the best thing you can do is be honest with him and try to be non confrontational about it. that's your best bet to getting genuine honest answers. don't hold this in and let it create animosity between the 2 of you. if you need to talk it out, you can msg me.
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    I saw this post earlier but didn't have time at the moment to respond...she said she found out he has 2 other girlfriends......why the edit?

    Either way, I'm really sorry OP.
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    Ugh! My friend has found a few things on her husbands phone this past year. I can't imagine how you two feel because it makes my heart break when men are like that and it hasn't ever happened to me. I'm so sorry men can be complete douchebags sometimes.
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