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    Life After Divorce

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    I am going through a strange divorce. My husband still loves me but I am done. There have been so many things that have gone on that cannot be taken back. Through all this all I can think is I cannot ever imagine getting married again. Have any of you been through a divorce and gotten remarried?
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    this thread, recently divorced
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    I've been through a divorce and gotten remarried, yes. Some people feel that way initially but as their past marriage/divorce becomes more in the distant past, you may change your mind. Or you may not. Either way, it's fine.

    I'm sorry you're going through a divorce and I hope that everything works out for the best!
    Beth, Mama to Emmalee (12), Evan (9), and Ella (4 on May 7) (I really REALLY need to update my picture!)
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    I have been through a divorce, and it is painful.I'm sorry you are going through this.
    I swore off of men after that,but then DF showed up in my life.I hope you find what you are looking for, either way,just give it time.
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    I went through a divorce not long ago.. my ex husband had cheated on me since we got married but claims that he still loves me. For a really long time I didnt think I could ever find someone else and had no desire to be in a serious relationship because I was so hurt and did everything I could to try to make him want to make our marriage work and wanted it to work but it failed.. I divorced him and he did nothing to try to fight me to stay. He was also emotionally abusive and really manipulative. I am finally starting to see the light and I am now dating one of my best friends and it is AMAZING, we will probably get married eventually and I will experiences love like I never new existed. So it does get better in time.. the right one will find you and love you like you deserve and you will be swept off your feet! I never knew that happiness like this existed and I now really feel bad for my ex husband..
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    I have never been through a divorce so I don't have anygeat advice for you, but lots of my best friends mom went through a very tough divorce (all divorces are I guess.. But her husband of more then 20 years just decided he didn't love her anymore and cheated on her numerous times) she swore off men all together and said even if she fell in love again she'd never get married again ever...well now she's remarried and happier then ever... It takes time. Lots of

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    all of these comments are helpful...gives me hope

    I love DB. Meeting has been has been amazing and like WOW..but the thought of marriage still makes me feel like

    its helpful to hear other people's stories

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    I wish that he didn't love me anymore. That would make this so much easier because I feel guilty that I don't love him and want out so bad. I really hate what this is doing to my children too. It sucks.
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    I've been through a divorce and it was super tough . He cheated on me then didn't even seem to care when I divorced him, he was posting FB pictures with him and another woman all over the place before it was even finalized. It was hurtful but I blocked him out on FB or whatever and moved on. Give yourself the time you need.
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    I to have been divorced and re married. With in 6 weeks of us getting married he had cheated 2 times. It took a while to come up with getting a divorce. We waited to see what could be fixed. Well nothing could be fixed. So a year later we were divorced. After I found him cheating I stayed on the east coast and he stay on the west coast while we tried to see where we belonged. Once we decided on a divorce I got in the mind set that I am not looking for a guy. But several months later DH walked in my life. We didnt get to dating right away. I just let life happen. When its meant to happen it will happen.
    It took longer than we thought. Now 2 IUI's, 3 IVF's, 1 FET .
    One day at a time, one step at a time, and one day we will get there.
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