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    I have to do it tonight...

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    In my post the other day I said I was breaking up with Db...well he has been working out of town all week and will be back tonight...

    I am getting so anxious about having to see him and tell him...I wish I could just tell him over the phone or via text (mature right?)

    I feel like bursting into tears ANY second...however it's not bad tears...I know this is for the better...I know I am doing the right thing, I just don't want to hurt him
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    it hurts but be confident, if you feel its for the best, dwell on your future, not the pain. good luck, we are all here for you
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    I asked him if I could come see him for a few minutes today...because I made other plans for the evening...and he knows something is up...

    This sucks so bad...I don't know if I am ready to say goodbye forever....

    I do know I am doing the RIGHT thing...i'm just scared
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    its ok to be worried. looking back on how heartbroken i was when some of my relationships ended. i feel your pain. it hurts so much, and it hurts you to hurt him, it sucks. now though, i never would have thought, i met an amazing guy, moved across the country,bought a home, and we are living happily ever after. just be confident that things happen for a reason, who knows maybe he will realize the problems and make some changes. i hope this helps
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    Any change can be scary.
    But find comfort in the fact that you know you're doing the right thing for yourself =D

    It may be a sad conversation, but you both will be happier <3
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