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    Sad Jumping Back In...

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    the dating pool. I've realized that this is what I need to do. I have to put myself first, as exDB has put himself, his feelings, and his career choice first. I have to stop holding onto something that might not be there when he gets back. He is the one who thinks his feelings for me are gone. He is the one who has let go. It is time to think for myself and live my life. This is the only way I will move forward from this. If we are meant to be, it will happen again. I have to stop hanging onto words and his things in the hopes that he will come back for them.

    I love him, and I will support him...but I must move on so that I can be happy again.
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    how do u move on though ? cause i am still trying to deal with the pain that my bf gave me when he broke up with me last week.
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    This sounds like a good idea girlie. If things are meant to be, he will come back and you two will pick up right where you left off. I'm sorry I haven't been able to write back. I've been sick and I've been in the middle of moving

    You deserve nothing but happiness!!
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    GOOD FOR YOU!

    I wish I could say the same, but I'm not ready to give up on (??)-DB just yet! So I'm tkaing a step back and letting him figure out what he needs 1st!

    Good luck!!
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    Good for you hun! Best of luck, and have fun. Don't focus to much on finding someone again. Just have fun, live your life, and love will find you!
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    Good for you!!! That makes me so happy to read. You deserve to be happy. That is great to hear

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    Good for you! Go out, have fun. Don't wait for him. If he asks and you are dating, tell him you are dating. Don't lay around crying over someone that can't even put you in the top 3 of his priority list. One day he will probably wake up and realize what he's lost and you will be sitting next to the man who found it and appreciates it. Screw him!

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    I didnt give up on him - his feelings for me changed. Maybe it's the deployment, but maybe it's not. I cant keep holding onto hope, when there might not be anything there. I have to be prepared. I told him I was going to start dating again and he said he expected that and for me to do whatever is best for me. Well, an emotional rollercoaster of thoughts is not good for me, and that's what I've been having for the past month. I fought for our relationship, so he can fight for me back when he comes home if he realizes he wants me, but I'm not waiting around anymore for him to regain his feelings for me.
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    I am glad you decided to be brave and move on. That is a hard thing to take, but it is an important step to realize. I hope you find true happiness with someone who see how important you are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    Good for you! Go out, have fun. Don't wait for him. If he asks and you are dating, tell him you are dating. Don't lay around crying over someone that can't even put you in the top 3 of his priority list. One day he will probably wake up and realize what he's lost and you will be sitting next to the man who found it and appreciates it. Screw him!

    Oh and Have FUN
    I bow down to your greatness. I was just about to say the same thing.

    OP, you can talk to people. I just went on my first official date since ex-DB and I split about 2 months ago. I can't wait to see where it goes. Do what feels right.
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