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    Sad Well, I guess this is it.

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    I never wanted to have to post in here, but here we go.

    Me and DB broke up about 2 hours ago. Still crying the hardest I have cried in a while, yet i feel numb. I'll add more later. I just need to turn everything off and be by myself right now.


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    Okay so it's been kind of rocky lately, we were having arguments about the current situation I am in, and he just thought the relationship isn't healthy for either us. He wants me to get help and move on from him. He insisted we stay friends and doesn't want to leave my life...he just doesn't want to be with me. I understand everything he is saying and I agree we both brought a lot of baggage into the relationship (me more so than him but w/e)...The relationship was hard to start with then add the distance and communication difficulties into it...it just made things go downhill.

    I am happy to say that this man is my best friend, my first love, and the best man ever to walk into my life. I am lucky that he wants to stay friends....it will just be so hard to see him with other girls and him living his life. I will be happy when he finds someone better than me, because I know he will find someone who he will want to marry, will be the love of his life, the one who makes him happiest, the one that isn't fucked up and has problems and baggage. I don't know. I am rambling right now, sorry. This is my hardest break up. I don't know if I will ever get over him.

    We sat on skype because I insisted that if he was going to break up...he do it to my face. Skype is our best option. I sat there bawling, while he tried to make me smile. I don't know he is such a sweet guy...I almost wish he would treat me like sh*t so that it would be easier for me to get over him. Dammit. I don't want to go to school tomorrow, see everyone while they hug me and say they are sorry. I hate crying so much!


    Sorry I needed to vent and let this all out.
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    I'm sorry lady. . Hang in there. My pm box is open.





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    You're far from alone, hon. We're all here for you.

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    Im so sorry
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    I'm so sorry to hear that.
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    I'm sorry, hun. I'm going through it too. PM me if you want. Keep your head up
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    I'm really sorry
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