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  1. Missing My Soldier
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    It's been a while....

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    So I haven't been on here for quite some time, but I've definitely missed this site! My soldier and I aren't together any more (as of about 1 month ago)...we made it almost a year after his deployment (3 1/2 years total together) and things just didn't work out. He has lots of issues from his Afghanistan deployment that he said he has to work out on his own. He said he still loves me and hopes I wont be completely out of his life, but that he can't give me everything that I have given him during and after the deployment. I'm dealing with it all the best I know how but it's extremely hard to know what to do. He seems to be doing ok with being apart but we talk about once a week and see each other every couple weeks and he continues to say that he wants me to "not go away," but I don't know how to be friends with him. It's holding me back from moving on and becoming happy again, but I feel like I can't just walk away from him, knowing how sad and depressed he is about the deployment and all that happened. I'd feel responsible if anything happened to him because I didn't answer my phone one time. So any advice would be great, but I'm pretty sure it's just a waiting game to see what he does.
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    I'm glad you're back!! Sorry your situation sucks, though.
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    I remember you, welcome back. Sorry to hear things ended

  4. Missing My Soldier
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    Thanks girls! It's nice to be back
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  5. I'm sorry for the things I said when I was hungry.
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    i just saw this. i've missed you. sorry to hear about your breakup




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