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    Sad He ended everything... Update Post #45, 64, 72

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    And with a 30 minute phone call and hanging up on me, after 3 years together just says he's leaving and he hangs up on me. Everything has been wonderful. We've both been a little stressed lately, and had a lot going on, but that's how life goes...

    I'm just astonished, out of no where... He said he needs to focus on himself and the army for the next two years. I'm devastated. I'm shocked. I'm heartbroken...

    Last edited by coblueeyes2116; 06-30-2010 at 11:17 PM. Reason: Update
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    Im sorry. Just try to keep your head up and remember that we are here for you. My PM box is free if you ever want someone to talk to. My exDB was in the Army and basically did the exact same thing. Came out of left field and ended things, so I understand the confusion you are going through. It will get better, hon.


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    Thank you everyone. I really appreciate it and the support. Can't stop crying, walking in circles, and wondering what the heck is going on?!

    What hurts most is that he could have been respectful and civil about it..
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    How awful. I'm so sorry. Surround yourself with family and friends. That's my only advice




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    Thanks Whitney. I am supposed to fly to see him on Thursday for the holiday weekend. I know it sounds silly, but I still want to go. I want to get answers and figure out what's going on. My family wants me to come home for the weekend instead. I know in my heart of hearts they are right, but I can't accept it quite yet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by coblueeyes2116 View Post
    Thanks Whitney. I am supposed to fly to see him on Thursday for the holiday weekend. I know it sounds silly, but I still want to go. I want to get answers and figure out what's going on. My family wants me to come home for the weekend instead. I know in my heart of hearts they are right, but I can't accept it quite yet.
    but maybe you do need to sit down and talk with him, just so you aren't left hanging and wondering what went wrong. my ex did that to me and we still talk and everytime i ask him why he still says he doesn't know. maybe you just need to go for closure, to see that it really is over...or perhaps things could be worked out?
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