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    i did the best i could, and now i did the best thing for me

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    and yet i hate it that i broke up with him. but he made things too difficult, not knowing what was going on with him. there were times that he pushed me away and then pulled me, i felt like a yo yo. but he kept treating me like crap whenever he felt like it and when i asked why he always said bec i can but tht doesn't mean i like doing it......so why do it!!! and now he wonders why we're not on the same page anymore......i don't know what i should believe from him anymore so i can't do this anymore....i was a proud af gf and i know i could handle the af crap but i just can't handle his crap anymore. i feel horrible and miserable but i know i made the right choice...i just wish i could stop crying...but all i can think of is the song apologize by one republic and that just sums everything up along with hot n cold by katy perry.....yes songs usually can sum up my life sadly all i know is that i don't want to be here
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    Can I get you anything chocolate? Maybe some ice cream? Brownies? lol Trying to do the girl friend thing. I hope you realize that you got out of that in time. It may not seem like it right now, but you did the right thing. PM me if you need anything!

    DH: Thank you. ME: For what, babe? DH: For being you.




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    i dedicated 4 yrs to him, 2 of which were in the af and all i ever got were bull **** answers about 6 months after he got to england....what finally pushed me over was when he texted me that we shouldn't get married...i tried talking to him to find out if he just wasn't ready right now but he didn't answer he would only text me and he was just so cruel. and when i broke up with him he was angry saying he didn't mean to break up but he finally just pushed me to a point that i couldn't stand and now he wants to keep intouch and i like how he told me he was at work when he was texting me but when he decided to be nice last night the story was he was drinking.......i'm tired of him changing his stories
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    How many versions of this story has he told you? Sounds to me like he's just being a jerk.

    DH: Thank you. ME: For what, babe? DH: For being you.




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    too many times and whats worse is that i'm still hoping he'll realize what went wrong and try to fix it so that when he's back from england atleast on leave before changing to a base here in the u.s. he'll prove to me that i'm always what he told me i was his #1 priority
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    You deserve to be treated much better than that. I hope you feel better soon! And, don't worry, songs sum up my life too
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    sounds like he needs to be single right now. You'll move on
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    People do so much changing in 4 years, and even more after that.

    Everything will work out, and you'll be so proud of yourself later. Trust me.
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    uscsemperfi-i love your wedding pics

    yea mybe he needs to be alone
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    Quote Originally Posted by onenonlyalways View Post
    uscsemperfi-i love your wedding pics

    yea mybe he needs to be alone
    Gracias.
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