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    No advice but and I hope you make the right decision.
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    Sorry you are going through that. How long have you been married? Have you tried counseling? Is it something that can be fixed or have you exhausted all those options? You are welcome to PM me if you want to talk. I'm on marriage number two. Number one was mean, nasty, manipulative, rude, cheater, etc., etc. I can probably relate.





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    Have you considered counseling?

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    we've done counciling, but i dont feel that safe in the relationship and i think its time to let it go and move on for myself
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    Is there someone else?

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    If you don't feel safe then you need to get where you are safe! I wouldn't stay if I didn't feel safe either. You should never live in fear. EVER.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Solstice View Post
    Sorry you are going through that. How long have you been married? Have you tried counseling? Is it something that can be fixed or have you exhausted all those options? You are welcome to PM me if you want to talk. I'm on marriage number two. Number one was mean, nasty, manipulative, rude, cheater, etc., etc. I can probably relate.
    These are very good questions. I agree definitely with marriage counseling. I'm currently married, however, DH and I went through the ringer in our marriage, and have managed to get through and work/solve our problems. I would hate to see a marriage end if all options hadn't been considered. Feel free to pm me anytime.
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    I was with someone who was controlling and manipulative, his next step was to start abusing me. I can understand not feeling safe and wanting to get out if counseling doesn't work. I've never been divorced but if you know it is the right choice, good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blondiiqt492 View Post
    we've done counciling, but i dont feel that safe in the relationship and i think its time to let it go and move on for myself
    Gotcha. You should feel comfortable and secure in your relationship. If your safety is at question, I would definitely suggest a separation. Is there any other place that you could go? I was in an abusive relationship in the past, and that time was not fun at all. I understand the need to leave and feel comfortable, you have to do what makes you happy, and in this case safe.
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