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    In tears

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    So I just got home from work and I logged onto facebook.. and saw that someone left a comment on my bil's status update that I also left a comment on..
    It was Matt's new gf.. talking about how she loves going to my MIL's place. Uhhhh.. this fucking kills.

    The bitch looks just like me.. WTF?

    I keep holding on to him.. thinking that maybe just maybe we can still make it work. What is wrong with me?

    So now I'm laying here in bed in tears.. I can't stop..
    my heart hurts so much
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    I'm sorry. It must suck. But the only thing you can do is to get moving forward. I would delete all these fb contacts (why keep them? they will only hurt you).

    May I suggest something? The holidays are right around the cornor. Ever think about going out and volunteering at a local soup kitchen or Meals on Wheels? Those people are truly down and out and it can help ALOT to get your mind focused again. Being appreciated will help your spirit immensely. It's just a thought.

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    aww im so sorry!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayo View Post
    I'm sorry. It must suck. But the only thing you can do is to get moving forward. I would delete all these fb contacts (why keep them? they will only hurt you).
    May I suggest something? The holidays are right around the cornor. Ever think about going out and volunteering at a local soup kitchen or Meals on Wheels? Those people are truly down and out and it can help ALOT to get your mind focused again. Being appreciated will help your spirit immensely. It's just a thought.

    with the bolded. I'm really sorry you are going through this
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    I know it sucks, but I would just move on and be done with it.
    I Love My Baby!
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  7. me and 2010 are going to bffs!
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    I know it's hard, but just know you deserve the world. I agree with volunteer work for the holidays. People can use a smile like yours to cheer them up, and I bet it would help you too.



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    Im sorry dear
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    delete him!!! it will help!
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    I swear I hate FB. After breakups, I can't bear to get updates on my exes and what's going on in their lives for some time. So any accounts that may cause us to cross each other's paths... I must delete. And for awhile, I remain in contact with friends or others the old-fashion way--via phone, text, or e-mail. Lol.

    I'm sorry you had to see that crap. It might be best to stay away from anyone's profile who's connected to your ex until you're over it all. And don't let curiosity get the best of you either. Let the tears out now so you won't cry later, stay strong chica.
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