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    Pre-deployment pushing away...turns to walking out

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    Honestly I don't know if this should be in pre-deployment because I indeed blame his fear, anger, confusion solely on this short notice deployment that was in front of us.

    I posted a week ago in regards to him pulling away and acting irrational. Please see: Pushing away before deployment...is this normal? I suppose things got out of control...He was telling me a different reason every day for the way he was acting and the way he was feeling (well really he could never place how he was feeling) one second he loved me and wanted to uphold his commitment to us and the next he didn't want to be in the same room as me. (I never understood how he could tell me he was "trying" and then do NOTHING but yell at me and be hurtful) He kept pushing and pushing and while trying to defend myself I suppose I pushed back.
    He came home from work last night packed some of his things and left. He is at a friends house right now and we haven't spoken since he left the house last night and apparently he plans to go back to his dads in a week or so. I'm really angry right now...his friends wife keeps calling me and telling me to stay possitive and all this crapola....well of course your ganna feel that way he's staying with him. I'm angry...he's burning everything around him so he has nothing to lose and I'm getting dragged down with it.
    I'm sorry if none of this makes any sense....thanks for listening.
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    I'm going through the same thing.
    Hang in there.
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    So sorry
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    I'm sorry
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    Didn't see the update in the other thread, sorry.



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