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    welp i belong here now!

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    DF & I ended last week. 2.5 yrs together, pushing our way thru the last few months of long-distance before our wedding, rounding out the 8+ months of his deployment to Iraq... and it's over.

    I'm not gonna go into the story cuz I don't really care about it anymore lol-- I'm not upset or anything. But basically DF was a reeeeeeeeeal ass in how he handled things! Oh and I guess I'll fill ya all in on part of the reason (his reasoning, not mine)-- He signed up to go to Japan for 3 yrs, unaccompanied and it is not a family friendly job/situation at all. Now that was a shocker to me, cuz ya know usually you'd tell your significant other that you're considering doing this job in Japan for 3 yrs before actually crossing the t's and dotting the i's. If he is gonna be a huge jerk to me for absolutely no reason, then I have no reason to be sad or upset over this. I deserve someone who isn't selfish and who treats their significant other well.

    I feel soo much better off now because now in hindsight I can see that he wasn't right for me. I am a strong Christian and he wasn't, and I want my future SO to have a strong relationship with God... cuz imo if Josh had that, then there is no way he'd have the audacity to end things the way he did.

    Anyway I know there are bright BRIGHT things in my future and I am juuuust fine =) Instead of getting married in May & moving to NC to be with DF and find a job, I'll be staying in Ohio & getting my MBA & working on passing my PAT & entering into the PGA program.
  2. One Day At A Time...
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    Sounds like you made the right choices for you, you should be so proud of that!!! I know that there is someone out there that is PERFECT for you, and shares the same values that you do!!!
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    We've never talked, but I always liked your golf posts in the happy thoughts thread. It sounds like you're handling this well & I'm sure there are great things ahead of you.
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    It's so great that you have concrete plans for your own future. Education is never a wrong route and will open so many doors for new wonderful experiences in your future! If he was going to be an a$$, better now so you are out of it, than a life of misery in an unhappy marriage. I know times may be hard, but you seem like a very strong girl!
  5. me and 2010 are going to bffs!
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    So good to see you're optimistic about this and instead of crying, you're thinking of all the ways to better your future. Good for you & good luck!



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    I would be a mess. I respect you for how strong you are being.


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    Quote Originally Posted by chrissyh33 View Post
    I would be a mess. I respect you for how strong you are being.
    I'm sure you have had a long road but it seems like you are being very positive. Way to go for taking care of you!
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    I wish you the best of luck
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    While I am sorry that your relationship ended, it sounds like you're handling things well.
  10. Gonna Be Alright.
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    I'm glad that it didnt take you long to realize that he isnt the one for you. You are handling this so well. I wish you the best of luck! P.S. I'm from Ohio also!!!

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